flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
There is a tradition on this forum that says that all women who wish to post here must start by posting their picture 
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I am a woman.
- Thread starter Pookie
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Haha, maybe one day.Originally posted by flyinshark
There is a tradition on this forum that says that all women who wish to post here must start by posting their picture
Centaurion, I'm not going to ask help with my "problems" - I'm interested in learning a bit more about the game between men and women.
Thank-you everyone, you guys are pretty cool. I've looked around and most of the stuff you use is true. The guys that stick in my mind are the ones who use techniques like ones here. Even when you fully aware of the game, it still beats you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
uhh i was in sunny daytona for the last 10 days .....
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
She's Baaaaaaack......
penkitten
Master Don Juan
we had a blast
penkitten
Master Don Juan
nanananana
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
She's Baaaaaaack......
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RUN FOR THE HILLS!!!
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
She's Baaaaaaack......
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RUN FOR THE HILLS!!!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
sheesh!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
haha ty
good to be home...
Welcome. Here is a list of some of the active female posters other than you:
- WaterTiger
- Wyldfire
- Fist_of_Fury
- penkitten
- seabreeze
- SheDevil
Feel free to PM any of them if you wanna chat with them.
By the way, nice moves Gig...Just don't go overboard yet with the :flowers:
- WaterTiger
- Wyldfire
- Fist_of_Fury
- penkitten
- seabreeze
- SheDevil
Feel free to PM any of them if you wanna chat with them.
By the way, nice moves Gig...Just don't go overboard yet with the :flowers:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Eternal
Thank-you for making that list! Great.
Thank-you for making that list! Great.
Male and female represent the two sides of the great radical dualism. But in fact they are perpetually passing into one another. Fluid hardens to solid, solid rushes to fluid. There is no wholly masculine man, no purely feminine woman.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
And there is no spoon....
I guess I took the easy way out.
Truth is, girls are just as insecure about it all as the guys. Doesn't matter how good looking you are, how rich, how powerful. We all experience defeat on multiple levels, and no one masters the heart.
So why come to a forum with a bunch of men?
I want to view things on the other side of the mirror. What is really going on here? Where is the game, if there is one at all? Are we just a bunch of players and sluts? How can I find what I am looking for without being totally robbed?
diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
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I reckon it's Pook pretending to be a woman.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.