guys, please help me with this - i have so many issues-
almost 3 years spent at this site and still I am a failure with women. a girl told me yesterday like within the first minutes of talking to me "you remind me of my best friend".
I hadnt done sh1t enter the friendship zne and I did.
I am 20 and I have had one girlfriend during the last 3 and a half years. I am still a virgin and terrbly ashamed of being one.
actually Im afraid of losing it now cause at my age there are almost no virgin girls left. so that means they have a lot of experience already. and I am afriad that when do get the chance to get laid eventually they will think I totally suck at sex and that I will *** like in 30 seconds of something.
I am so ashamed of being a virgin at this age. I think its pathethic. especially when you didnt want it t go that way. I shuldve ****ed the last girlfriend I was sexual with at 16 that way. I would have gotten over it already.
man I was talking yesterday to this 15 year old who had already had a threesome . the same one who told me about how I reminded her of her best friend.
its not only that, but I cant understand why I have no success with women. I never have the girls I want. Im feeling so dwn about it. why do girls keep rejecting me? lack of sex is so bringing me down. why cant I be the object of a girls sexual desire? Im certainly better looking than a lot of the guys they sleep with.
yet I am the one rejected. I try to be ****y and funny as much as I can but I get the sense that they dont think its real, eventhough they do laugh. not even the fact that Im a musician helps. whos ever heard of a musiccian who cant get laid? its absurd, I know, but now you have.
I think I need therapy. I want to have sex so bad already. I tink its pathethic that I am still a vigin at this age. makes me feel like Im not a man. specially when I hear of how everyone else is having so much sex. still I am afraid of coming off really inexperienced wit all this sexually experienced girls my age. I am afraid of telling them I am a virgin for they will certainly think that its sweet and will no longer see me as sex potential. not that they do anyway. not the ones that resemble my beauty ideal (and it isnt that high anyway - just cute curvy white chicks) .
I work out, Im fit, I am into something i love (music and art) Ive followed all of the general advice here for the last 2 and a half years . and everything , every single area of my life has improved, except women. I am still a failure when it comes to them and its a mystery to me why it is that way.
the lack of company from women ad lack of sex is having great repercussions on my being and mind. now I ve been here long enough to stay away from the nice guy behaviors, not that I ever did them much anyway. so why cant I be a hunk to them?
sometimes when I watch porn I am amazed at how the girls seem to long the guys ****sand stuff. I know its acting but I know this happens n real life and I am amazed by it. how ils actually want some guys to **** them and to suck some guys ****. I guess I find it amazing cause I am not viewed in this way by them often. almost never I would say. I ve been thinking this says something also about the unconciouss mage i may have of women, where the fact that they want to get f0cked and like holding a **** in their hands is a surprise to me.
anyway. I hope I made mysefl clear. I feel so down with my situation. after almost 3 years Im starting to lose hope.
what can I do so my sex life can improve? more accurately said, so I can have a sex life?
almost 3 years spent at this site and still I am a failure with women. a girl told me yesterday like within the first minutes of talking to me "you remind me of my best friend".
I hadnt done sh1t enter the friendship zne and I did.
I am 20 and I have had one girlfriend during the last 3 and a half years. I am still a virgin and terrbly ashamed of being one.
actually Im afraid of losing it now cause at my age there are almost no virgin girls left. so that means they have a lot of experience already. and I am afriad that when do get the chance to get laid eventually they will think I totally suck at sex and that I will *** like in 30 seconds of something.
I am so ashamed of being a virgin at this age. I think its pathethic. especially when you didnt want it t go that way. I shuldve ****ed the last girlfriend I was sexual with at 16 that way. I would have gotten over it already.
man I was talking yesterday to this 15 year old who had already had a threesome . the same one who told me about how I reminded her of her best friend.
its not only that, but I cant understand why I have no success with women. I never have the girls I want. Im feeling so dwn about it. why do girls keep rejecting me? lack of sex is so bringing me down. why cant I be the object of a girls sexual desire? Im certainly better looking than a lot of the guys they sleep with.
yet I am the one rejected. I try to be ****y and funny as much as I can but I get the sense that they dont think its real, eventhough they do laugh. not even the fact that Im a musician helps. whos ever heard of a musiccian who cant get laid? its absurd, I know, but now you have.
I think I need therapy. I want to have sex so bad already. I tink its pathethic that I am still a vigin at this age. makes me feel like Im not a man. specially when I hear of how everyone else is having so much sex. still I am afraid of coming off really inexperienced wit all this sexually experienced girls my age. I am afraid of telling them I am a virgin for they will certainly think that its sweet and will no longer see me as sex potential. not that they do anyway. not the ones that resemble my beauty ideal (and it isnt that high anyway - just cute curvy white chicks) .
I work out, Im fit, I am into something i love (music and art) Ive followed all of the general advice here for the last 2 and a half years . and everything , every single area of my life has improved, except women. I am still a failure when it comes to them and its a mystery to me why it is that way.
the lack of company from women ad lack of sex is having great repercussions on my being and mind. now I ve been here long enough to stay away from the nice guy behaviors, not that I ever did them much anyway. so why cant I be a hunk to them?
sometimes when I watch porn I am amazed at how the girls seem to long the guys ****sand stuff. I know its acting but I know this happens n real life and I am amazed by it. how ils actually want some guys to **** them and to suck some guys ****. I guess I find it amazing cause I am not viewed in this way by them often. almost never I would say. I ve been thinking this says something also about the unconciouss mage i may have of women, where the fact that they want to get f0cked and like holding a **** in their hands is a surprise to me.
anyway. I hope I made mysefl clear. I feel so down with my situation. after almost 3 years Im starting to lose hope.
what can I do so my sex life can improve? more accurately said, so I can have a sex life?