hey hey guys!
so i'm still seeing that same girl (2 months now) who i went crazy about .. i have stopped texting her and calling her all the time and i keep it to once or twice a week now .. almost always just to organise something. we are getting closer i feel. hung out with her last saturday, under the blankets, watching movies, having sex, etc. hung out again on tuesday, had sex again. then this is the part that bothers me.
am i expecting too much from a 2 month relationship? after we have those great times together and mind blowing sex, she never texts or calls unless i do first. 3-4 days goes by, nothing. there's only been two/three times where she initiated first because i went a few days without contact.
if i call she's usually busy which gets annoying cause its like jinxed to me. i rarely get her on the first call. she always calls back or texts after that. is that the normal thing or something these days? i hear other guys girlfriends always texting everyday and calling. i wouldn't mind some of that just a "hello how are you" every couple days. everything is going great with us, romance in the air when we are together etc but its just that. i hate calling and texting all the time. on tuesday she asked me to come to her house friday (tomorrow) to play some poker with her and her friends. i told her i'd let her know .. so two days later i texted her late at night about it and she said she'll call me tomorrow during the day.
so why am i the one who has to always initiate this sh1t? we always plan things before it happens but then i have to always follow up even though she invited me or suggested. is this normal? is it the guys job to chase this much? fuk! lol
now just so you know, she's a busy bee.. she has two jobs, studies, lives with family, plays basketball, goes to the gym, has a lot more friends than me because i only just moved here a year or so ago. i only have one job and few friends. i have been living alone for about 3 months because my mother went overseas. so it's dead for me. she's a tomboy as well btw so she doesn't really have the same mindset as those everyday HOT girls. she's... somewhat different.
so i'm still seeing that same girl (2 months now) who i went crazy about .. i have stopped texting her and calling her all the time and i keep it to once or twice a week now .. almost always just to organise something. we are getting closer i feel. hung out with her last saturday, under the blankets, watching movies, having sex, etc. hung out again on tuesday, had sex again. then this is the part that bothers me.
am i expecting too much from a 2 month relationship? after we have those great times together and mind blowing sex, she never texts or calls unless i do first. 3-4 days goes by, nothing. there's only been two/three times where she initiated first because i went a few days without contact.
if i call she's usually busy which gets annoying cause its like jinxed to me. i rarely get her on the first call. she always calls back or texts after that. is that the normal thing or something these days? i hear other guys girlfriends always texting everyday and calling. i wouldn't mind some of that just a "hello how are you" every couple days. everything is going great with us, romance in the air when we are together etc but its just that. i hate calling and texting all the time. on tuesday she asked me to come to her house friday (tomorrow) to play some poker with her and her friends. i told her i'd let her know .. so two days later i texted her late at night about it and she said she'll call me tomorrow during the day.
so why am i the one who has to always initiate this sh1t? we always plan things before it happens but then i have to always follow up even though she invited me or suggested. is this normal? is it the guys job to chase this much? fuk! lol
now just so you know, she's a busy bee.. she has two jobs, studies, lives with family, plays basketball, goes to the gym, has a lot more friends than me because i only just moved here a year or so ago. i only have one job and few friends. i have been living alone for about 3 months because my mother went overseas. so it's dead for me. she's a tomboy as well btw so she doesn't really have the same mindset as those everyday HOT girls. she's... somewhat different.