Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I always get massive, beating headaches on the back on my head whenever I do cardio.

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It's so weird because it only happens when I do cardio. I drink lots of water and have no health problems as far as I know. 17 Male and pretty healthy, dont even get sick that much lol.


Its hard to explain but just like a beating headache on the back and sides of my head, not the top. Any ideas?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I used to get that from lifting when I wasn't breatheing correctly. Learn how to breathe properly, and don't hold your breathe when doing a rep, or in your case a stride.
 

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I got those once, while doing squats. It happens when your brain is deprived of oxygen, because the blood is out in your arms/legs. That or you have a bruised blood vessel in the back of your neck/head.

I'd suggest taking a week off and staying sedentary to let whatever it is heal somewhat. Then get back into whatever it is you do slowly, and take 5-10 minutes to warm up if you're doing high intensity exercise.

I know the feeling of those head throbs, and it isn't fun at all. Just take it easy and warm up correctly and it'll disappear by this time next week.
 

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blackbelt2k said:
I used to get that from lifting when I wasn't breatheing correctly. Learn how to breathe properly, and don't hold your breathe when doing a rep, or in your case a stride.
You must hold your breath on the big 3 and others though
 

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wolf you should never truly hold your breath. Sure there's a technique to control breathing(leaving air passages open) while doing heavy compounds, but holding your breath is a bad call and is just asking for trouble.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If that doesn't help it may be sinuses. Earlier in the summer I got those and my nose wasn't running or anything but when I would go on bike rides my head would hurt, taking a benedryl fixed it.
 

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Quiksilver said:
wolf you should never truly hold your breath. Sure there's a technique to control breathing(leaving air passages open) while doing heavy compounds, but holding your breath is a bad call and is just asking for trouble.
The pro powerlifters I train with always hold their breath. You can do internal damage if you don't hold the pressure in.

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ANYTIME I pass my threashold of volume/intensity my body will tolerate in one session I get a headache. For legs its about 12 hard sets, upper body 20 hard sets. I can also create the headache with 2-4 ALL OUT sets of squats/deads. Pretty common really.
http://www.ironaddicts.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11060
20 rep squats do it for me
 
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Its hard to explain but just like a beating headache on the back and sides of my head, not the top. Any ideas?
I won't pretend to know whats the cause of your headaches. I have gotten headaches before in the past. Breathing technique is something that occurs naturally, if your not breathing right it will feel uncomfortable, so I'll assume you have common sense enough to know what feels right and what doesn't (as far as holding your breath).

Your gonna get all kinds of aches and pains from weight lifting. Sometimes your not gonna have the answers to some of these pains so its up to you to decide how serious they are and whether or not you wanna ignore it or seek medical attention.
 
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