"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I ain't sayin she's a Gold Digger...

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I think this chick I'm dating is using me for my money. I paid for the first date and needless to say the price was a bit ridiculous. The bill came out to $5.10! How do I know if this woman is just in it for my money or if she really likes me?











...lol :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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she's not a woman. if you put your hand down her pants you'd find a hot dog in there.

shes not in it for your money, shes in it for your *ss.

J
 

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Originally posted by joekerr31
she's not a woman. if you put your hand down her pants you'd find a hot dog in there.

shes not in it for your money, shes in it for your *ss.

J
mmm... hotdogs
 

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hahaha

$5.10? you are KIDDING right?? 1 coffee costs $5.10 here....a "date" here costs at least $20 (USD) +(that is not dinner...dinner would put you up $100 at least)


at $5.10 Id be jumping up and down with joy haha
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: hahaha

Originally posted by Jamo
$5.10? you are KIDDING right?? 1 coffee costs $5.10 here....a "date" here costs at least $20 (USD) +(that is not dinner...dinner would put you up $100 at least)


at $5.10 Id be jumping up and down with joy haha
We went to a restaurant and ordered drinks at the bar. She had an iced tea and I had a ginger ale... lol. If anyone can get a lower bill than this, you're my hero!
 

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Originally posted by Oxide
Wheelin, since when are we paying for women's dates? You provide her with fun and company, she should pay for you!
True, true... It's just that the women I date are so much younger then me that I feel a moderate amount of shame in using their parents money.. ;)

Yesterday I pulled off another $5 date. The chick was 19, I'm 25. I order a ginger ale she orders a diet coke. The bill came to $5.03 but I wanted to look rich so I threw down a $2 tip. I don't know why I spend all my money on women??
 

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
True, true... It's just that the women I date are so much younger then me that I feel a moderate amount of shame in using their parents money.. ;)

Yesterday I pulled off another $5 date. The chick was 19, I'm 25. I order a ginger ale she orders a diet coke. The bill came to $5.03 but I wanted to look rich so I threw down a $2 tip. I don't know why I spend all my money on women??
lol - sounds like an Eric date to me!

I think blockbuster charges like $4.75 for a new release movie rental now. I usually use gift cards I get from vendors who come to my office.:cheer:
 

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Re: Oxide

Hell no. There is absolutely no comparsion between St. Petersburg and Moscow. Standard of life is 4X higher. Going out in Moscow is more expensive than London. All of Russia's billionaires live here (most anyway), and Russia is number 2 after the states in numbers of billionaires hehe. And no Im not from here. Just living here, and loving it.
 
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