"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I actually feel a little used!

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Third date last night with an HB7.5 off of match. Asked her to come over for dinner to my place.
We had a few laughs and a good meal, went to the living room with some wine. Made a little move, kissed her and it was on! She suggested we take it to the bedroom, and we spent three quality hours together. Had a little snooze until about midnight, and then she heads home.
Texted her today to say good morning, all is good. Then I log onto match again and she has been online in the past 24 hours..why the h*ll is that bothering me? I mean I like this girl, great personality, nice body. Wild, and I mean wild in bed.
I know the deal, I have two other plates I’m banging regularly. I keep busy, I pull women all the time. I guess maybe I’m getting tired of plates, and I want the real deal again. I admit, I feel kind of hollow if we had some kind of connection and then she runs back online for more with someone else..
Yes I will pull my head out of my a** now because at least I am getting laid.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dr filth prescribes 100mg of "man the fvck up" to be taken twice a day alongside "stop being such a pvssy".


can be taken with food or on an empty stomach.
 
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She could be using Match to look longingly at YOUR profile. She could be reliving moments and want to see your face again on there.

Of course, something quite different could also be happening.

Ambiguity.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Albatross953 said:
Third date last night with an HB7.5 off of match. Asked her to come over for dinner to my place.
We had a few laughs and a good meal, went to the living room with some wine. Made a little move, kissed her and it was on! She suggested we take it to the bedroom, and we spent three quality hours together. Had a little snooze until about midnight, and then she heads home.
Texted her today to say good morning, all is good. Then I log onto match again and she has been online in the past 24 hours..why the h*ll is that bothering me? I mean I like this girl, great personality, nice body. Wild, and I mean wild in bed.
I know the deal, I have two other plates I’m banging regularly. I keep busy, I pull women all the time. I guess maybe I’m getting tired of plates, and I want the real deal again. I admit, I feel kind of hollow if we had some kind of connection and then she runs back online for more with someone else..
Yes I will pull my head out of my a** now because at least I am getting laid.
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The reality is that you're just another guy to her. I've had women lie to my face saying they wanted a serious relationship and then I never heard from them again. Could It be I was a bad lay? maybe. But some of these women got their rocks of and even let me video tape them (srs) The truth is a lot of women online are just looking to get their rocks of and are bottom of the barrell women who are to damaged to have healthy loving lasting relationships
 
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^^^Maybe this is why some guys get a little confused by women. Even when things are spelled out for them, they still don't seem to understand what the state of 'play' is...
 
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See it is posts like these that have caused me to visit this site less and less lately. This and the fact that there is so much hating of other posters as of late.

OP you seem like you have a lot of things going for you in regards to women, but in this case you are way way WAYYYYYYY over reacting. And so are some of the responses you are getting. How and why? Because you did the EXACT same, logging onto and checking your dating profile, that she did. Yet she is the bad person here? Op, just because you had a great night with a woman you are not yet exclusive with, that does not mean her life as she knows it stops and begins to totally revolve around you. I mean, you are dating others right? You are calling and text and emailing with other women right? She is probably doing the same considering she is on a dating site. Is she just supposed to stop her dating life because of one night with you? No.

Plus, she could have been on there for any number of reasons. She could have been checking to see if you were on it. She could have been catching up on some correspondence she had been having with other guys, and for all you know she could be telling them she met a great guy (you) and doesn't want to meet anyone else. Or she could be on there like any other normal person would be, checking to see what responses she has to her profile. The point is what she is doing is not disrespectful. It isn't evil. It isn't being a slvt. She is doing exactly what you, me, or anyone else would do while single.

Now, if you two ever become exclusive? Fine. Write a post here and be upset. But this right here, right now? Is nothing.
 
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