I acted a complete AFC. How would you handle this situation?

[amoka]

I had couple glasses of wine yesturday and began acting completely out of control. First of all, I went and knocked on the girl I had sex with two weeks ago door. Read here. I knew she was home: her light was on, her car was at the parking lot but she won't open. I knocked couple of times but she still won't open it. I left for my apartment and grabbed my phone and called her. She won't pick up so i left her a voice message saying "I'm planning on going to the movie theatre and she is welcome to join me. She should call within the next 30 minutes or so to let me know if she is desires to go" Well she did not call and I went to a my dancing class. Read current number close in my journal....

On my way home, she called me. I did not pick up. she called again and still did not pick up. Ten minutes later she sent a text message:
" I think we better not that close. I almost made mistake. Sorry for what happened. Pls take me as a stranger but saying hi. Thanks.". What is the best way to respond to this? I know I won't be texting her back for sure but next time I see, how best should I respond to this?

 

[joekerr31]

you f*cked up and acted like an AFC.
learn from this so that next time you don't make the same mistake.

asking what to do now is like asking "how do i get the sh*t off the toilet paper i just wiped my *ss with?"


the girl probably didnt answer the door or phone because she was probably banging some guy when you came over.

anyway, you got laid, you f*cked up - all in all that's not so bad. move on to the next plate.

 

[Aaron B]

Either don't respond, or send her a message like "who is this?"

 

[Makkaveli101]

Either don't respond, or send her a message like "who is this?"

hehe You knows it.

 

[lee36044]

On my way home, she called me. I did not pick up. she called again and still did not pick up. Ten minutes later she sent a text message:
" I think we better not that close. I almost made mistake. Sorry for what happened. Pls take me as a stranger but saying hi. Thanks.". What is the best way to respond to this? I know I won't be texting her back for sure but next time I see, how best should I respond to this?

Translation ... "don't call me ... I won't call you!" How can you take it for anything else? No response necessary! Live and learn and don't do it again.

Best play would have been to answer her call and tell her you made plans with someone else when she didn't call but you would love to join her later for coffee or a drink. Of course after pounding on her door ... that may not have been an option ... call was probably to b1tch you out for bothering her in the first place.

Like was said before ... live and learn. A response of any kind only makes it worse.

Regards