"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I’ve stalled at 2 plates - now my confidence is failing me.

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Blinkers

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I am desperately trying to get a 3rd plate spinning. I even resorted to an extended effort on plenty of freaks. Word of advice regarding that ‘DON’T’

I am not the best looking guy, not the worst either. In person, I can confidently game a 6, or 7 (that’s my reality) However, on plenty of fish, well basically all I get interest from are land whales with 2 or more womb turds in tow. So fvck that. I am out of there [DELETES ACCOUNT]

There are 2 girls at my gym I have been interested in pursuing, one of them is easily a 9, so new territory for me; the other a 7. I walked the 9 down the road a few nights back and never even got the courage to ask her for a drink – what a complete chump! I got all nervous and every single time she smiled at me I got more nervous – I was disgusted with myself and just said “see you soon” and wandered off at the junction. What a useless piece of sh1t I am…
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BeDJ

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I had a conversation with a friend about this recently. He would be talking to his prospect then all of a sudden - 'Welp! See you later!'

It's that awkward moment that you just want to eject out of the pilot seat. It happens to everyone. Most of the time those awkward moments are just perceived. Your nervousness makes it a reality. It boils down to the fear of rejection. She turns her back = Rejected. You turn your back first = SAFE!


DON'T EJECT. Be a Kamikaze. Make HER eject first.

(I text my mom I love her before every approach.)
 
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Scaramouche

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Dear Blinkers,
To get plates sometimes needs a long lead up time...I scored the other Day with someone I met at a Party Christmas '12...Simple just innocently asked her Birthday then,start by predicting their Astrology sign,then when they say no,say OK so what are you?then follow up with,what date?...Easy Peasy...I write a Copper Plate Hand,personalise Envelopes with singing Birds and Birds flying,so send her a nice cheery Birthday Card and ask how she is getting along...I got her address from the Party Hostess...Well long and short of it,got invited to her little Family get together,scored afterwards,perhaps a promising addition to my declining Harem LOL.
 
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