I’m Shook

[Chain]

After being LJBF’d and invited to take space from talking to my ex, I knew I had some stuff to work through.

I began working on myself, I’m down 80 lbs, I’m fit, I’ve been working through some trauma from my childhood and I’ve been devouring information: like you I have a high IQ and my studiousness paired with my curiosity has lead me to the deep game.

After Rollo ruined me (thankfully) with Rationale Male, I am now devouring The Game.

I am already incredibly sociable, have a massive sphere of influence, I’m no PUA at all, but I’ve stumbled into 20-30 (lots drunk) high score and was really just devastated by “oneitis.”

Now that I’ve absorbed so much information, and worse yet will absorb so much more... will I ever be able to see a woman as a partner?

I find it tough to accept I am so open and eager to the Red Pill. I am in an excited state and have trouble stopping the desire to dive deeper down the rabbit hole. I respect women, and know that their conditioning/behavior is just a construct of evolution... I don’t find anything malicious about their sexual strategy... I see the need to be aware and assert my own above it though.

I guess what I’m saying is now that you all have ripped my eyes open to this reality will I ever find normalcy again? Will a women ever really feel special to me again?

Sorry for the Lengthy post... no one else in my life is woke though!

Is there any experience you can share that mirrors this? What is it like now?

Thanks for your time and consideration.

 

[Epic Days]

I guess what I’m saying is now that you all have ripped my eyes open to this reality will I ever find normalcy again? Will a women ever really feel special to me again?

No. You will never be the same again. You will never view the world the same again. I don't even listen to the same music anymore because I cant stand the sappy goo coming from it.

I don't want to be the harbinger of bad news bro.

 

[Chain]

Not bad news Brother. Can you expand though, just saw another post about no girlfriend ****. Never LDR? Ever?

 

[Epic Days]

Well once you understand, at a deep level what is going on, you realize that what keeps a woman coming back is the level of your ability to be and stay masculine.

The masculine presence is cat nip for her. It doesn't even matter what kind of a man you are. She doesn't care. It's a biological response.

Long Distance Relationships do not work. It's not a relationship.

 

[Chain]

Well once you understand, at a deep level what is going on, you realize that what keeps a woman coming back is the level of your ability to be and stay masculine.

The masculine presence is cat nip for her. It doesn't even matter what kind of a man you are. She doesn't care. It's a biological response.

Long Distance Relationships do not work. It's not a relationship.

****. I’m such a newbie. I meant LTR. Long term bullshir whatever

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Enjoy the rest of your life being a "selfish *******."

Better than being a "nice guy."

 

[Epic Days]

I say if you want a LTR then have one.

But go on this journey for a while. See what happens here.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Chain you need to understand something. The love you experienced from your parents when you were growing up is not the same kind of love you express with a partner. That was parents loving a child and you are now a man. You have outgrown love where you are allowed to be needy, complacent, and emotionally reliant on someone else.

Now that you are a man you are expected to foster a fulfilling life where you feel immense abundance and joy being alone. Strong in body, mind, and spirit. Maintained, reserved. Only when you feel to be overflowing with love for yourself will you be ready for a healthy relationship with someone else. You will enjoy providing unconditional love(within reason) to your partner and children, but you will always retain your masculine core and emotional center. Your love and respect for yourself is what will keep women around. They will treat you how they see you treat yourself. If they test you, you will kindly but firmly check her/express what disrespects you. If she's unwilling to work it out you must be willing to walk. Always be willing to walk. You don't have to flat out threaten or anything like that. Just start spending your time doing more interesting things. A masculine man is never needy or codependent, those are childish traits that he has outgrown.

 

[Chain]

Much respect men. Thank you.