I’m popular you’re not

[DJ1234]

I know everyone has seen this ad running through here (only on every other page )....did a search to see if there was any kind of discussion but didn't find any hopefully it hasn't be discussed if so please just link the thread and close...


I’m popular you’re not

#1 guide to social skills

www.thepopularlife.com


What's everyone's take on this? Doesn't surprise me that someone would think of something like this since we already have sites for picking up chicks....


Also looking at your personal friends....why are you friends with who you're friends with? And what traits do the "Cool" or "popular" people have that you want to be their friend, IN YOUR OPINION?

discuss.

 

[Solomon]

My take on this

I know everyone has seen this ad running through here (only on every other page )....did a search to see if there was any kind of discussion but didn't find any hopefully it hasn't be discussed if so please just link the thread and close...


I’m popular you’re not

#1 guide to social skills

www.thepopularlife.com


What's everyone's take on this? Doesn't surprise me that someone would think of something like this since we already have sites for picking up chicks....


Also looking at your personal friends....why are you friends with who you're friends with? And what traits do the "Cool" or "popular" people have that you want to be their friend, IN YOUR OPINION?

discuss.

When it comes to meeting picking up women, you don't have to be popular, but hot damn it sure helps and makes things a hell of a lot easier

In High School/College if you well known people can vouch for you, you are "cool" popular chicks wanna be seen with that "dude"

Not only that but Social Proof can help anywhere

• Work
• Clubs
• Parties
• etc etc

My thoughts on Social Proof is that, it helps not just with women but all aspects of life. When I say Social Proof I'm not talking about being Popluar nesscrialy but knowing the right people! You could be poplular fine, but what good is the popularity just to be known? I rather know the right person and not be popular but because I do, I have access to venues that others do not, etc etc (follow me?)

I'm friends with the people I'm friends with, because their motivated indiviuals who want more out of life. Their not lazy, they work hard, are loyal and overall good fcuking people. I don't care at this point if my friend is cool or popular that shht doesn't matter to me. I have some friends who I go out with and they know everyone, have populairty and can get us cheap V.I.P. access the whole works, and I have friends who keep to themselves. I don't make my decisions on friends based on who is popular but who is geniune, and a real friend

hope that helps

peace

 

[DJ1234]

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thanks for your input....
IC, that's what I would think most people on here would be like friends with more genuine people that they're closer with....


The reason I also ask this question is that...it seems that lately after a while people just don't want to hang out....they'll say hi to you when they see you at school, work where ever etc. generally seem to be your friend but when you call to hang out they're "too busy" or just don't want to hang out....

 

[Maxtro]

It seems interesting. I can say for certain that having no social circle and being alone for the vast majority of the time will not get you laid.

I am two months away from the end of my second semester at university and I haven't done shit. I know I could and should be having so much more fun than I am. There is so much potential here it's amazing and I haven't tapped any of it.

It sucks that not only do I have to get over my depression, I also have to learn how to be an average dude, then I need to become above average to start getting girls.

I just hope I manage to avoid getting kicked out this semester.