"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When women play games. Such as canceling a date, taking longer to get ready for a date, not calling for as much. How do you handle it? What should your reaction be?

Me current approach is recognizing it as a game. And not saying anything. If she calls to cancel, okay i got plans i need to attend to as well. If she is late not noticed it.

Not do anything AFC, like say oh but i really wanted to see you, i miss you, we need to spend more time together. none of that junk.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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inzone50 said:
When women play games. Such as canceling a date, taking longer to get ready for a date. How do you handle it? What should your reaction be?

People can have legitimate reasons to cancel dates, be late.

If a girl gives me a good reason for the cancellation, is apologetic about it and tries to reschedule, then I know she is for real and I wont make a big deal out of it. If she totally flakes on me, then I would never call her again.

You just have to assess the circumstances and act accordingly.
 

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People can have legitimate reasons to cancel dates, be late.

If a girl gives me a good reason for the cancellation, is apologetic about it and tries to reschedule, then I know she is for real and I wont make a big deal out of it. If she totally flakes on me, then I would never call her again.

You just have to assess the circumstances and act accordingly.

Ya but it could be a good reason, but she lies? And than still reschedules.
 
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