“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Its irrelevant.

Its neither important nor about the feels. Its either in your nature or its not.

Be breaking rapport.
As in, cashier.. Go beyond hi/hello.
Some cashiers are somewhat rude and hi/hello is not even there. For the ones that are somewhat nice, what am I supposed to do? Ask their number on the check-out line? Suppose they say no? I'll have embarrassed myself behind people in line behind me. I don't think I can handle that type of rejection. I think even they can smell like if you have no options or are single and are hungry and give you poorer customer service.

DEEZEBRAH said:
Every set is practice. Repeat.

Alex 4x rule.

Wash/rinse/repeat @ every set!
I do not currently open sets. You mean a group with guys and girls or group of girls together?

DEEZEBRAH said:
Its not the Superbowl. Its not game 7 of 7. Its practice. Every set no matter how hawtttt Is PRACTICE.

After enough sets, women are fairly obvious, and the location nor the whereabouts of the sun has little to no relevancy.
Okay. So I'm not opening sets hence my predicament?

DEEZEBRAH said:
I've had chicks proposition me at work, coffee shops, gyms, grocery stores, and obv bars or clubs.

I ****ing love day game. Your not going nuts. Its more then enough to have your frequency dialed in day or night. Same approach day or night but tuned into the scenario. Its enough to be high enough energy that's breaking rapport.
Random chicks that do not know you really propositioned you out of the blue? What openers do you most frequently use in day-game?

DEEZEBRAH said:
The Game is money. Its old as **** but, its tidbits of game that doesn't change.

Leave her better then you found her is so money.
Okay, well that's a change from the old LMS. You sure you are not looking like a stud or something? You have a learning curve or are you just a natural?

DEEZEBRAH said:
I've had women scream for me in a Starbucks or out shopping. Its not the club. Your not skull ****ing the cashier on checkout.

Its enough to be memorable. Its not about her or any one set. Its about being the sort of man who makes moves.

Its like chess. You are just setting pieces before checkmate.


High energy, absurdity, and stupid positivity, and outrageous enthusiasm all go a long way.
This is your personality then? You are an extrovert? I'm not like that. I'm introvert, in my head, and generally low-energy. It's how I'm wired. Okay, extroverts have an easier time to attract women because they are high-energy and are able to beat social barriers with their insane high energy and enthusiasm.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It can certainly work if both are very compatible personality wise and stubborn enough to never give up on each other.
I don't think my parents are "stubborn" at all...I think that they are each others best friend and confidant.Despite red pill beliefs some married people are very happy.
 

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I don't think my parents are "stubborn" at all...I think that they are each others best friend and confidant.Despite red pill beliefs some married people are very happy.
You totally missed my point. Stubborn as in committed to each other enough to make it work
 

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I don't think my parents are "stubborn" at all...I think that they are each others best friend and confidant.Despite red pill beliefs some married people are very happy.
Mine are the classic nuclear family. Married to this day forty years and counting. Would I recommend you or I following said path? **** no. Why? Its not that season anymore. Women are skiing down cawk mountain. Are cratering SMV. Its not until her best days are over or nearly that her solipsism is put into question. Its ideal for women and children but, again, it goes back to male disposability and male sacrifice.

Be my guest.
 

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I'm introvert, in my head, and generally low-energy. It's how I'm wired. Okay, extroverts have an easier time to attract women because they are high-energy and are able to beat social barriers with their insane high energy and enthusiasm.
I'm an introvert also, and I'm proud of it. I figure it makes me more independent. I feel like extroverts are more dependent on other people for their happiness, and I can happily work on hobbies and projects on my own, where possible.

The one thing that I wish I had that extroverts do is their ability to feed on a conversation. Extroverts draw their energy from other people, so when they get into conversations, you can really see them getting more and more energized by the interactions. That kind of energy is hard for an introvert to match, because interactions slowly drain us.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mine are the classic nuclear family. Married to this day forty years and counting. Would I recommend you or I following said path? **** no. Why? Its not that season anymore. Women are skiing down cawk mountain. Are cratering SMV. Its not until her best days are over or nearly that her solipsism is put into question. Its ideal for women and children but, again, it goes back to male disposability and male sacrifice.

Be my guest.
I agree with you on this... if your spinning plates all you are going to get are slvts by definition,they are "plates" you see.If your Tim Tebow and a virgin and all you are dating is virgins with morals then this does NOT apply.
 

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I'm an introvert also, and I'm proud of it. I figure it makes me more independent. I feel like extroverts are more dependent on other people for their happiness, and I can happily work on hobbies and projects on my own, where possible.

The one thing that I wish I had that extroverts do is their ability to feed on a conversation. Extroverts draw their energy from other people, so when they get into conversations, you can really see them getting more and more energized by the interactions. That kind of energy is hard for an introvert to match, because interactions slowly drain us.
Any introvert could talk and when they do its like a waterfall of information/stories.

It's just a matter of finding where their interest lie.

The difference with extroverts, they just hv diverse information that skims at the edges hence their ability to socialise better as in agreeing, questioning and adding into the topic.
 

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Any introvert could talk and when they do its like a waterfall of information/stories.

It's just a matter of finding where their interest lie.

The difference with extroverts, they just hv diverse information that skims at the edges hence their ability to socialise better as in agreeing, questioning and adding into the topic.
Extroverta spit regurgitated information and catchy phrases. They do it for the energy. Introverts will have a treasure trove of useful information.
 

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Lacking no doubt. I would add low testosterone. A victim complex. Likely raised by a single mom.

There's a predisposition to trying to be pretty. Its all really homo if you ask me.

I notice a trend among the youth, a trend of skinny jeans, being skinny as **** but dating slobs, women 10x their size. Also, too much beard. Not because men have beards but, again, a piss poor attempt to be pretty to get fat women. Bbws

Lol
The beard in fashion. It's a managed IDGAF look.
 

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Extroverta spit regurgitated information and catchy phrases. They do it for the energy. Introverts will have a treasure trove of useful information.
Lol there's no energy to be had.

Introverts are those men who r basically from the intellectual or doer quadrant, those from the doer side of the quadrant could mingle easily as they hv diverse topics to add to whilst being easily bored hence being called an introvert.

Those from the intellectual quadrant however r those full blown introverts, they don't hv diverse topics to talk but those topics that they do know they hv an in depth knowledge and sometimes it comes off as too much.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lol there's no energy to be had.

Introverts are those men who r basically from the intellectual or doer quadrant, those from the doer side of the quadrant could mingle easily as they hv diverse topics to add to whilst being easily bored hence being called an introvert.

Those from the intellectual quadrant however r those full blown introverts, they don't hv diverse topics to talk but those topics that they do know they hv an in depth knowledge and sometimes it comes off as too much.
Intellectuals think the free flowing extrovert more political "talkers" are full of shyt. I guess balance is required.
 

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Intellectuals think the free flowing extrovert more political "talkers" are full of shyt. I guess balance is required.
When 2 intellectual meet and talk, they'll exceed the perceived normal discourse of a conversation.

It's more then any free flowing political talkers could ever do.

My meaning is, introverts talk, they actually talk more, it's just finding the right people to mingle with.
 

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When 2 intellectual meet and talk, they'll exceed the perceived normal discourse of a conversation.

It's more then any free flowing political talkers could ever do.

My meaning is, introverts talk, they actually talk more, it's just finding the right people to mingle with.
Yeah but being able to talk to the general population and excite them might not be a bad skill.

I like your macking spaz. I want to contribute similarly.
 

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Yeah but being able to talk to the general population and excite them might not be a bad skill.
That's true.

The fact is there just aren't many intellectuals at social events, they tend to stay indoors and it compounds their own social awkwardness.

Intellectuals in any demographics r a minority and this contributes towards their perceived awkwardness by the majority.

I would say to any true introverts, go out more, when in a social setting, find those from a doer or a motivator quadrant, they'll gladly spar and make it a lively conversation. Just know when to back off, dont aim for a win in a conversation, those men from that quadrant hv a predisposed dominant personality (those here calls it alpha).
 

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That's true.

The fact is there just aren't many intellectuals at social events, they tend to stay indoors and it compounds their own social awkwardness.

Intellectuals in any demographics r a minority and this contributes towards their perceived awkwardness by the majority.

I would say to any true introverts, go out more, when in a social setting, find those from a doer or a motivator quadrant, they'll gladly spar and make it a lively conversation. Just know when to back off, dont aim for a win in a conversation, those men from that quadrant hv a predisposed dominant personality (those here calls it alpha).
The political can win conversation against the knowledgeable.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I agree with you on this... if your spinning plates all you are going to get are slvts by definition,they are "plates" you see.If your Tim Tebow and a virgin and all you are dating is virgins with morals then this does NOT apply.
Dude, many Christian church goers are pregnant, are cratering SMV, and while unicorns exist, its the outlier chick who isn't got the IG ass pics up while swinging from from cawks like Tarzan on a vine.

Spin plates to acquire top form SMV. Its then sorting through the chicks who is seeking self knowledge, exploring consciousness, and picks you during her best years. No ambiguity. Roll with her. After thousands of sets, absurd amounts of pickup good approach, and I've met awesome chicks. Zero I would marry.

The idea of swearing away current and future earnings as well as sexual access is retarded.
 

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There's a predisposition to trying to be pretty. Its all really homo if you ask me.
Although I'm in favor of looking sharp, I'm baffled by the need to spend absurd amount of time looking at the mirror.

1 min should suffice. Lesser would be better.

Anything more then 5 minutes is just plain gay.

Must be this new age shiet, no offence guys, I just don't subscribe to the metrosexual look. Some guys even started carrying handbags at my office and with certain off the cuff remarks that got all the girls giggling, the handbag toting guys couldn't handle the shame....
 

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Although I'm in favor of looking sharp, I'm baffled by the need to spend absurd amount of time looking at the mirror.
There's simply no ambiguity. A dude is either marching to the beat of his own drum or pandering to the feminine imperative.

Trying to be pretty fits in which category?

Its absurd the amounts of cuck soy boys trying to be pretty. Lift heavy not because he's a man but in his get pretty schemes.

Wonders why he cannot pull.

1 min should suffice. Lesser would be better.

Anything more then 5 minutes is just plain gay.

Must be this new age shiet, no offence guys, I just don't subscribe to the metrosexual look. Some guys even started carrying handbags at my office and with certain off the cuff remarks that got all the girls giggling, the handbag toting guys couldn't handle the shame....
No. Be offensive. These cucks are an absolute disgrace. No kidding they don't pull. Busy putting on their makeup.

If they land a girl, its cratered SMV, Chad's booty call after she's hit the wall. These cucks call her wife until she divorces there stupid ass.
 
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Lacking no doubt. I would add low testosterone. A victim complex. Likely raised by a single mom.

There's a predisposition to trying to be pretty. Its all really homo if you ask me.

I notice a trend among the youth, a trend of skinny jeans, being skinny as **** but dating slobs, women 10x their size. Also, too much beard. Not because men have beards but, again, a piss poor attempt to be pretty to get fat women. Bbws

Lol
How old are you, deeznutz?

I reckon you're kind of young, because you know all the lingo and sh1t.

If you say bae one more time lol. Where are you? NYC? Lol fvck off with that sh1t
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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