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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Hypergamous gal performers can't do sexy scenes with lower-tier guys

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Here are 2 examples from reality shows at different ends of the sexy scene spectrum. In both examples, the gals can't go through with the sexy part because the guy is considered low-tier.

First, a p0rn scene where the woman refuses to go with incel-tier man, starting at @ 4:40.
I don't have any attraction to him at all. I think he's nice.

Next, a dance performance with tweener kids in which the ending has to have a small kiss "on the lips". The fat mothers cackle like it's the funniest thing they've ever seen, while the poor lad gets an introduction to the nasty & brutish world of hypergamy.
If it was Zach Efron, I would kiss him.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Here are 2 examples from reality shows at different ends of the sexy scene spectrum. In both examples, the gals can't go through with the sexy part because the guy is considered low-tier.

First, a p0rn scene where the woman refuses to go with incel-tier man, starting at @ 4:40.


Next, a dance performance with tweener kids in which the ending has to have a small kiss "on the lips". The fat mothers cackle like it's the funniest thing they've ever seen, while the poor lad gets an introduction to the nasty & brutish world of hypergamy.


I can see those guys look awkward. So what if thr group tags the "low tier" on someone who looks normal to good looking.
 

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The young kid was probably told that his dancing skills would make his crush fall in love with him.

Good luck with that.

Go Zack Efron or go home lol.
It shows how the "girl" groups are. If you can get one you can get them all. If the door not open with one its not open with all. Itty bitty titty committee.
 

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It shows how the "girl" groups are. If you can get one you can get them all. If the door not open with one its not open with all.
That’s the thing about social circles.

Let’s say there is another girl in the class that likes this guy. Once the first girl bad mouths him (with her ewww rant), other girls can’t be interested in him without hurting their own reps (and standing with their group of friends).

Obviously it’s a reality show with built-in drama and with very young people, but the social circle dynamics continue into adulthood (in a more subtle way).
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That’s the thing about social circles.

Let’s say there is another girl in the class that likes this guy. Once the first girl bad mouths him (with her ewww rant), other girls can’t be interested in him without hurting their own reps (and standing with their group of friends).

Obviously it’s a reality show with built-in drama and with very young people, but the social circle dynamics continue into adulthood (in a more subtle way).
But at least two speaking up your better.
 
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