I didn't fully realize the value of the hypothetical question until today, when a friend said "hey remember last time at lunch when we had that conversation about..."
The great thing is that they are so easy to come up with.
Examples:
What would you do if...
you found out your car exploded
you were walking home and found $1000
you had the opportunity to drive a race car on the track
Would you rather...
marry an attractive midget, or semi-attractive person of average height
move to the beach in australia or travel to the moon for a day
go sky diving or scuba diving
How would you feel if...
you were given a mansion anywhere you wanted
the dog you thought died yesterday ran up to you today
you were blind but one day could see again
They're really very easy to come up with. People may say "but you can't just say something like that in the middle of a conversation, it will seem wierd!" People don't remember that kind of thing anyway. Even if they would remember it, the point is not that you made a weird connection in your conversation, or that you were really random, but that you made the conversation interesting. This will greatly compensate for any akwardness in asking the question in the particular situation. Some of these might be odd depending on the person and situation, but they do two things:
-Bring out emotions (you can make them positive depending on the question)
-Make her REMEMBER you and/or your conversation
They also fun.
Try it. Next time you casually see someone and have a conversation, particularly a girl, ask a question like this. Make it a fun conversation. You'd be suprised at the things you can get out of a simple question
.
The great thing is that they are so easy to come up with.
Examples:
What would you do if...
you found out your car exploded
you were walking home and found $1000
you had the opportunity to drive a race car on the track
Would you rather...
marry an attractive midget, or semi-attractive person of average height
move to the beach in australia or travel to the moon for a day
go sky diving or scuba diving
How would you feel if...
you were given a mansion anywhere you wanted
the dog you thought died yesterday ran up to you today
you were blind but one day could see again
They're really very easy to come up with. People may say "but you can't just say something like that in the middle of a conversation, it will seem wierd!" People don't remember that kind of thing anyway. Even if they would remember it, the point is not that you made a weird connection in your conversation, or that you were really random, but that you made the conversation interesting. This will greatly compensate for any akwardness in asking the question in the particular situation. Some of these might be odd depending on the person and situation, but they do two things:
-Bring out emotions (you can make them positive depending on the question)
-Make her REMEMBER you and/or your conversation
They also fun.
Try it. Next time you casually see someone and have a conversation, particularly a girl, ask a question like this. Make it a fun conversation. You'd be suprised at the things you can get out of a simple question
.