"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hurricane Wilma

Eternal

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Well, since it is now the most powerful hurricane on record...I guess a thread for it could be useful.

What are your thoughts/views about it and how it's come about?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oakraiderz2

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My thought are....not again. Im glad im not still in florida.
 

S-lemond

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well we will soon have one less state.....
 

S-lemond

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oo and looks like I will be outta school soon...livein in the GA
 

penkitten

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i hope more people start leaving before the hurricane hits this time

our country doesnt need a higher death toll
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Pretty friggin scary,..note my location
 

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Its interesting that most of the people that live in the path of hurricanes and tornadoes live in trailer homes. Can't they just drive somewhere else?

JK - picked it up from a corny stand up comedian... he had more impact but you get the idea.
 

PRMoon

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hmmm prehaps I won't be movin to Miami from good ole vegas afer all. No crazy 150 mph storm ruining my good time in the middle of the mojave.

Viva las vegas... viva for ever.
 

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Dear me... another one.

Well, my prayers go out to anyone unfortunate enough to be in the storms path. :-/
 

SamePendo

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You guys get it softly...

Cancun is taking it goodtime (in this case.. badtime).


There was a post, well, two, discrediting theories about the world coming to an end.. and about the world economy getting all ****ty etc... any one who has found it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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