"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hunting sexy?

Brian20o2

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Is hunting sexy?

We had homecoming this weekend and all these girls were asking if I was going. I told them I wasnt and they always ask "Why not?" so I just told them I was going hunting at my dads, which was true and now I have a 2 point hanging in my garage.

I'm guessing by saying it nonchalantly and only telling them when they ask I come off as not braging and it being a "macho hobby"

Although I do regret not going to HC this was my only opportunity to get a deer.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It really depends on the girl. An animal rights activist vegetarian chick wont think it's very sexy.

But you like hunting so who gives a crap if it's sexy or not. I'm sure you don't hunt just to get chicks.
 

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
It really depends on the girl. An animal rights activist vegetarian chick wont think it's very sexy.

But you like hunting so who gives a crap if it's sexy or not. I'm sure you don't hunt just to get chicks.
The first girl sounds exactly like my sister. But I go hunting for the hunt, but i figure hey! If it gets chicks too all the better.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't think hunting per say is sexy, they just probably like you and want to be into something that you are into. Instead of going hunting (where you would just sit and wait in silence for an animal to walk up), take them shooting. Shooting with girls is fun, and you will probably find that most of them are good with the proper training.
 

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Originally posted by Warrior Princess
I'm a female and I do think that hunting is hot.
Can I shoot you with my rifle?
 

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I don't really think this should be considered a hobby or a fun thing to do. You do it to eat the meat and if you don't do it other ppl will do it and you'll eat the meat anyways, unless you're a vegetarian. However I think taking pride in it is kinda stupid. I mean it's not like you're dunking in somebody's face or you're shooting a three-pointer but you're actually shooting an animal, which is a living being, too (untill you kill it ;)).

However this is just the way it works and I'm a meat eater too...because it's not like you'd make the world any better by not eating meat as animals arent innocent but kill other animals too so they can eat...
 

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Originally posted by madgame
I don't really think this should be considered a hobby or a fun thing to do.

You do it to eat the meat
I enjoy hunting, I dont care if you think its wrong, the thrill of the hunt is fun. And its so satisfying when you actaully drop it

and for the second part. yes i do eat the meat and thats the other reason I go. I wouldnt go just to kill it and leave it.
 
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