"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hung out with this chick

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i invited this chick to the movies.
maybe relationship material
it felt pretty good.
i was hesitant to put my arm around her, but got to it eventually and played with her hair.
the only thing that was questionable was when i dropped her off, i said "do u want me to walk u to the door or are u good?"
it was cause the olympics was on and i NEEDED to see the 100 breaststroke and i probably wasn't going to make it on time.
(i swim competitive breaststroke for my school)
but she was like, "no it's ok, go see ur olympics" she didn't sound mad tho.

btw pinneapple express = best movie ever
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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good sh1t bro... how'd the convo go? honestly i hate movie dates. i went on one and it was mad awkward just because you don't really get to talk that much in the movie. next time try to kiss her. i always push for the kiss on first dates... if you don't get physical fast you will often lose the girl. then again you are in high school so a lot of the rules don't really apply.
 
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firts off, pineapple express was G-R-E-A-T!!

Secondly, cmon man, DVR that shyt or something! ha
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do u want her to like u cause it sure sounds like it and she probably thought that u weren't interested and moved on ... its called life OK but i would talk to her and if u want to go out ask her stop waiting it will not get u anywhere.
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the reason i didn't push for anything was cause i'm still not sure of what i want with this girl.
i don't think i want to make her my girlfriend but.

the conversation was surprisingly smooth and it didn't feel awkward at all.
I didn't once have to think to myself "now what do i say?"
it just came out and we had fun.

she's not asian.
she's white and has freckles :)
like a 7 in my eyes.

the movie wasn't completely silent.
we couldn't stop laughing throughout the entire movie.

verysuave, i asked her out.
no actually it wasn't "asking out", but i just called her up and asked if she wanted to see a movie.

the truth is, i didn't care enough about how this girl thought of me to plan a date that i thought would attract her.
i just did what i would have done that day, but instead, i just brought her along.
 
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procanto said:
Do u want her to like u cause it sure sounds like it and she probably thought that u weren't interested and moved on ... its called life OK but i would talk to her and if u want to go out ask her stop waiting it will not get u anywhere.
Thanks
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i can see where ur coming from, but shouldn't we keep them wondering about if we're interested?
 
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