Hi guys, i posted this on another forum, but im hoping i can get some better advice here. I know its kinda long, but i would appericiate if you would read it. The imporant stuff is under "Update #2".
Also is it bad that i didnt give her a hug last night after we were done with the gym? We just split once i reached my car. She walked to her car alone, i didnt follow her there, but while she was walking i yelled out a "bye".
Another thing i want to add is that the last time i was with her, she mentioned her mom going out of town for spring break, and her having hte house to herself. She asked me what i was going to be doing over break..I said i might go to cali, but it might fall through.. I dont know what this girl wants..ive been chatting it up with a girl in my class for the past few weeks, and it turns out we are members at the same gym. Anyways last night i asked her to come with me to the gym, and she was totally for it and seemed really happy. When we got there i made her do back exercises, during which i was to make really good physical contact with her. Afterwards she dragged me onto the ellipticle cardio machine and made me do a 30 minute run with her for payback .
Anyways, im pretty sure she is going to be sore today, so should i call her sometime today and ask her how shes feeling? If she says shes feeling stiff, ill offer her a massage lol. She is also on my AIM, should i still call, or message her online? I can also talk to her in person tomm during class, should i just wait till then?
I know i sound retarded, but i overthink stupid **** like this. Tia
UPDATE #1
wow i dont think this went so well lol..tell me if i messed up
I was chilling in my car waiting for a friend so i decided to give the girl a call. I called, she picked up, we exchanged hi's/whats up. I asked her how she was feeling--her back specifically. She said it was kinda sore but it felt good. Then i told her that i was dead tired in the morning thanks to her cardio, and she cracked a laugh. We were talking for about 20 seconds and I wanted to keep talking. However all of a sudden my retarded friend decided to surprise me and banged on my window really hard after creeping up on me. SO i quickly told the girl, "hey im about to drive, ill talk to ya in a bit". She said "ok" and then we exchanged good byes. I bet shes going to think im rude now, but now i dont feel like calling.
What should i do now. Just wait till tomm and dont call her back?? If she asks why tomm, ill just say i was waitin for my friend and had to take off.
UPDATE #2 -- I need advice please
ok so today i got home from my morning classes and logged onto aim. I couldnt really focus in class all morning because ive been thinkin of this chick--eeeek. Anways, she doesnt send me a message, so i say **** it and log off and go take a nap. After an hour i hop back online and she sends me a message asking if i went to the gym today. I say "hey whats up, nope". I ask her the same question back, and she said "no, lets go after class". At frist i refused--telling her i will be busy. She then called me a "Pu55y", and litterally begged me to come, so after a few minutes i said "fine ill go, but when we're done tonight you wont be able to walk lol" (leg day). That was the end of the convo and i told her i had to head out for a little.
Anways a few hours later, i head to evening class and sit by her. We bull**** for a little bit, and once class is over me and her walk out to the parkin lot. Today she brought her e46 (SWEET! shes a bmw girl), and she told me to race lol. Anyways we get to the gym and we work otu and talk quite alot. After an hour, during our last exercise, I ask her what she'll be doing tomm and thats when everythign went down the sh1tter. She said "My boyfriend and his mom want to take me to some jazz fest thing at a restaurant". FOR the love of god WTF??? I just kept my cool and changed subjects real quick. After another 10 minutes, we finish up our workout and head for the door. I dont know if she expected a hug or anything, but as we walked to our cars, i said "Alright [name], ill talk to ya later. Don't drive too fast now!!". She replied with "I WILL".
Anways there you guys go. Im stiting here feeling depressed that this girl has a boyfriend. She is beautiful and i feel we can really talk about stuff and relate, but i dont know what to do. Help guys seriously, i dont know what to do.
Also is it bad that i didnt give her a hug last night after we were done with the gym? We just split once i reached my car. She walked to her car alone, i didnt follow her there, but while she was walking i yelled out a "bye".
