"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Human Trafficking

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DevanE said:
I agree with you a 100% but you have to realize that in the U.S their are set "rules", "guidelines" or laws where as outside NOBODY does anything about it because the laws aren't enforced as strictly as you would think so a lot of the sh** people get away with and CONTINUE to get away with for YEARS because their isn't a persecution because in reality no one cares. The police can be bought, judge, lawyer, even the MAYOR can be bought if offered the right price. Just look at Mexico.
While I agree the U.S. has more laws and rules enforced and for the good to some degree. But if you think every law and rule is good or equally enforced then you probably have your blinders on. Our government is bought and controlled by special interests. There's more kinds of child abuse than just sexual abuse. There's probably more "child abuse" going on in a lot of public schools in the U.S than anywhere. It doesn't take a genious to figure out the real motive why these people go to asia to find child abuse.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kabatura said:
....Funny how Bigjohnson has been there and knows it just isn't serious at all, and Chapstick has been there and knows it's rampant.

Maybe what one finds depends on what one is seeking? I bet Chapstick could find a child hooker in NYC, USA as well if he put his mind to it.



ketostix said:
It doesn't take a genious to figure out the real motive why these people go to asia to find child abuse.
Individuals have their own motives, but organizations primary goal is to continue to exist, and that means they need money.
 

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Originally posted by:- ketostix

While I agree the U.S. has more laws and rules enforced and for the good to some degree. But if you think every law and rule is good or equally enforced then you probably have your blinders on. Our government is bought and controlled by special interests. There's more kinds of child abuse than just sexual abuse. There's probably more "child abuse" going on in a lot of public schools in the U.S than anywhere. It doesn't take a genious to figure out the real motive why these people go to asia to find child abuse.
I don't really understand where you assumed that I have "blinders" on in my posts but just to re-iterate...my MAIN point was that MAJORITY of the people in the U.S are entitled to rights one way or another whether it be a kid, baby or a murderer and we will leave it at that. ;)
 

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No Devan doo't you get it? America is founded on freedom, which is a "good" principle, therefore, America is really in it to screw people. That's how it works, everyone is out to hurt people, except ketostix, who is out to expose the tricksters.
 

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No Devan doo't you get it? America is founded on freedom, which is a "good" principle, therefore, America is really in it to screw people. That's how it works, everyone is out to hurt people, except ketostix, who is out to expose the tricksters.
You're 22 years old and don't realize how much freedom in America has been whittled away. What matters what america was founded on in 1776? Back then people married 13 year olds at times. Being an American doesn't automatically make you a good person or believe in freedom one iota.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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.... I would think that in a country where birth is still often given at home, and where poor people cannot read, age is a somewhat diffuse concept.....
I'm not sure what purpose 'diffuse' serves in this context, but moving past that, while the idea of being off by a few days might seem shocking to anal retentive NGO types the fact is that the most common error in such docs is the Asian tendency to count conception as 'ground zero' for age.
 

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What I find even more flabbergasting than human trafficking is the voluntary slavery to which people commit themselves, all the while totally convinced they are free :crazy:

Most of the "free" people I know work crazy hours all week long, and spend what little spare time they have recovering from the trauma of selling out (shopping, drugs, hookers, etc). All the while they are going essentially nowhere, trapped by the burden of finances and digging a deeper hole of debt for themselves.

*shakes head*

While we are on the subjects of deep holes & prostitutes, I think anyone who works a job they hate is a slvt on some level. You are giving up your most valuable commodity (time) to make someone else's dreams come true, at the expense of your own well-being and fulfillment - all for a quick buck. In these cases, you are no one to judge a prostitute, (although you'd probably be justified in your anger at the fact that she probably makes twice as much as you do with half the effort)

As far as the issue of child labor is concerned I say put them kids to work! I got my first job at 10, working insane hours while attending school full-time. Though I hated my life at the time and my grades often suffered, it helped make a man out of me and I was that much more prepared for the real world once I graduated.

Success comes from perpetual hustling. The sooner we learn this, the better!
 

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English is not my first language, not even my second. I don't see the problem with "diffuse concept", but fine: age is guessed. And not by a few days, by months and even years.

And to being turned on by this video: You are a sick person.

I thougth there was something to be learned from this forum. I hoped I would gain information on how to become better, stronger. How to understand and be fair to men, and get out of the matrix, as you say it. But so much here is plain I hate, ignorance, fear and cowardice that any moment reading actually makes me think bad of men. I want a strong person, someone who will show me how to be better. But he does not need physical violence to prove his point. Someone who isn't afraid of himself so much that he resorts to the most ignorant stereotypes while blaming the world for his misery.

Few of you seem to have a life. I pity all of you who don't. And I wish good luck to the few who actually can use their brain. Don't get sucked into this matrix. Because that's what it is: a sub-cosmos of winos and losers who rub each others shoulders and think they're the sh!t.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Señor Fingers said:
What I find even more flabbergasting than human trafficking is the voluntary slavery to which people commit themselves, all the while totally convinced they are free :crazy:

Most of the "free" people I know work crazy hours all week long, and spend what little spare time they have recovering from the trauma of selling out (shopping, drugs, hookers, etc). All the while they are going essentially nowhere, trapped by the burden of finances and digging a deeper hole of debt for themselves.

*shakes head*

While we are on the subjects of deep holes & prostitutes, I think anyone who works a job they hate is a slvt on some level. You are giving up your most valuable commodity (time) to make someone else's dreams come true, at the expense of your own well-being and fulfillment - all for a quick buck. In these cases, you are no one to judge a prostitute, (although you'd probably be justified in your anger at the fact that she probably makes twice as much as you do with half the effort)
I couldn't agree more. This is one of the points I was trying to get at. You explained it a lot better.

As far as the issue of child labor is concerned I say put them kids to work! I got my first job at 10, working insane hours while attending school full-time. Though I hated my life at the time and my grades often suffered, it helped make a man out of me and I was that much more prepared for the real world once I graduated.

Success comes from perpetual hustling. The sooner we learn this, the better!
I agree here too, but what I was saying is there's exploitative child labor or exploitive labor in general, such as being semi-forced to working hard 14+ hours a day and being payed practically nothing for it. This isn't child labor, this is exploitation, but I notice these "activist" aren't too concerned about that when it's the very reason for prostitution.
 

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English is not my first language, not even my second. I don't see the problem with "diffuse concept", but fine: age is guessed. And not by a few days, by months and even years.
Now see, there you go again. How can you say this? For what place is this true? It's pretty damn condescending to assume that because someone lives a simple rural life they are too godamn stupid to keep track of time in increments as large as YEARS. Holy hell.

I wasn't aware you are not a native speaker, your grammar is quite good by my non-expert judgement.



Papermoon said:
And to being turned on by this video: You are a sick person.
I assume this isn't directed at me.



Papermoon said:
.... But so much here is plain I hate, ignorance, fear and cowardice that any moment reading actually makes me think bad of men
Some men have been horribly hurt and damaged by their past experiences with women. Not making excuses, just giving you reasons for some of the behavior you see here.



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I want a strong person, someone who will show me how to be better. But he does not need physical violence to prove his point. Someone who isn't afraid of himself so much ...

Me, me, also me. ;-)
 

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Papermoon said:
And to being turned on by this video: You are a sick person.
Why is watching a topless naked women who moves on a bed like she is having sex SICK?

Watch the video again with the sound muted and tell me its not somewhat attractive to you.
 
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