You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Call me non-PC, but I think race is the PERFECT term. We are of the same species, various varieties which we identify by grouping into races. Quarter Horses and Thoroughbreds and Shetland ponies, oh my.Maxtro said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Not really. Their is too much variation to have 'races' as they are traditionally viewed. Some blue eyed, blonde haired man from Germany is just as likely to have a closer DNA match to some Black man born in the deepest parts of the Congo, as he is to he's 'fellow' white German man.Maxtro said:
As far as there being RACES, so what? Racial traits are inherited. Inheritance is primarily via DNA. Yes? What we think is "similar" at the DNA level seems pretty irrelevant and probably says a lot about how well we understand the language of DNA more than anything else.Cash said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
