You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I want to be a two foot tall "Goblin" with a 10 inch c*ck.Men will have symmetrical facial features, deeper voices and bigger penises, according to Curry in a report commissioned for men's satellite TV channel Bravo.
Women will all have glossy hair, smooth hairless skin, large eyes and pert breasts, according to Curry.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Exactly my thoughts. This Economics professor can measure the rate at which looks are changing? And he concludes that a lack of disease results in a "child-like appearance"?Falcon said:Is this article a joke?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
joekerr31 said:i think we're probably 10-15 years away from some rich dude in america going "you know, screw your laws on poligamy. im marrying 10 hot chics and you can go f*ck yourself if you don't like it."
I agree with you here.bigjohnson said:The whole "we'll all be one race someday" thing is horsecrap too. If nothing else the founder effect will prevent it.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
There is only one race right now: Its the human race. What you are refering too is ethnic background and our DNA is 100% the same, that is why we can have babies with each other. Compare that with an Chimpenze and our DNA is 99% similar but the variation is big enough that we can't have offspring's together.Maxtro said:I agree with you here.
Humans evolved into the separate races that we are now.
DJDamage said:.... our DNA is 100% the same....
Cromagnon people killed off Neanderthals.DJDamage said:There is only one race right now: Its the human race. What you are refering too is ethnic background and our DNA is 100% the same, that is why we can have babies with each other. Compare that with an Chimpenze and our DNA is 99% similar but the variation is big enough that we can't have offspring's together.
Look at Neanderthal Man (modern humans did not evolve from Neanderthal man and please don't bring God into this) that is a dead end species. However did Nean' die off because Homo Sepian killed it or does it hold true that recent reaserch show that the two species interbred?! If that is the case then modern man can also split into other groups in a 100,000 years time but that is all speculation. We don't even know what the future will hold or even guess if we will be around for that long.
thats why i said 'heck hef is already living the lifestyle'bigjohnson said:I think you're behind the news. Ever hear of a guy named Hugh Hefner? He didn't marry them (why would he want THAT!) but same same thing.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.