Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Human Pheromones?

SolidGold

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Hi all.

So the other day I had this friend of mine saying I have pheromones because I seem to attract the attention of many girls as I walk buy. This was confirmed by another girl.

So I started to think about the issue. I know pheromones exist in the animal world, but how do you think it works in the human world?

Cheers!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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irocknike23

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They are just as real in the human world as the animal world, in fact I am not sure but I think its been proven by an experiment


EDIT: NVM actually its never been proven to be real in humans..
 

Fatal Jay

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I don't think they exist in the human class unless you wearing some good smelling cologne.
 

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They do exist but there's such a greater emphasis on other attributes that they either go unnoticed or they're unnoticeable.
 

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Well I saw an experiment where they put a bit of man's sweat on woman's lips and under her nose. Then let her talk with the guy.

Most of the woman said that they felt much more relaxed and comfortable when they had the sweat on them. So the pheromones do have some effect, the question is though how big the effect is.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fatal Jay

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Ionno man, I remember banging this girl, and she told me later that day that she still smelled like me, like my sex smell so it could be truth to it, but does it matter?
 

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Fatal Jay said:
Ionno man, I remember banging this girl, and she told me later that day that she still smelled like me, like my sex smell so it could be truth to it, but does it matter?
It's called curiosity man
 

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CCl(4)
 

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Yea dude, and some of it is generally better smelling thanks to genes, but a lot of it is going to be impacted by your diet. Your pheromones will be buried under your regular sweat, so you needa sweat good things.

I have a rockin diet most of the time. If you eat junk and fast food and lots of meat, your natural BO is going to be hard to be around. If your diet is primarily vegetarian with the occasional high-grade organic meat, you can get away with not wearing deodorant at all and women will still be comfortable around you. Of course, that's dependent on a girls expectations and what she's open to and how powerfully you sweat. If you sweat a lot, they'll probably be sick of it, but if it's not overbearing and you're in the right setting (outdoors, active, w/e), they'll often find it attractive if your diet's right.

Note: Because you're around yourself all the time, your brain will block out that sensory data and you won't be able to well gauge how pleasant or unpleasant your body odor is. Get a second opinion from a girl you're good friends with before you experiment hitting any setting without deodorant. ;)
 

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SolidGold said:
Hi all.

So the other day I had this friend of mine saying I have pheromones because I seem to attract the attention of many girls as I walk buy. This was confirmed by another girl.

So I started to think about the issue. I know pheromones exist in the animal world, but how do you think it works in the human world?

Cheers!

No. I think it's a lot of hooeybabooey.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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VladPatton said:
No. I think it's a lot of hooeybabooey.
Well there is evidence both for and against pheromones, to what extent they actually work in humans might range from either nothing or to significant stuff.

For ex. one study women were shown a tshirt and asked to rate the attractiveness of the person. They found a direct and statistically significant relationship between the amount of testosterone a man had, and the woman rating his shirt "sexy".

Another study showed that when women live together for long periods of time, their menstrual cycles actually sync up.

A third study said that there are actually chemical cues in a woman's tear that trigger a drop in testosterone from nearby men.

Studies opposing pheromones usually show that the VMO (the organ that might have controlled pheromone activity in humans) is vestigial and no longer functioning.

MY guess is that a pheromone or chemical cue like system exists, but it is different from the animal models studied these days so we cannot completely know how it works.
 

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If you don't wash for a month, you'll notice an apple smell in your groin that isn't present in the sweat of your armpits. That's the odor of the pheremone. Little wonder we associate apples with sexuality. Unless you want to go around offending everyone with BO and foot odor like a Middle Eastern taxi driver, you're never going to experience any reaction to your pheremone.
 

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JohnChops said:
Carbon tetracholoride is not a pheromone lol...
Oops. I meant CCl(3) ;)
 

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sageproduct said:
Oops. I meant CCl(3) ;)
thats an unstable version of carbon/chlorine bonding. Come on man carbon makes 4 bonds not 3 ... CHEMISTRY 101 IS NOW IN SESSION EVERYONE SIT THE FVCK DOWN! ALRIGHT PHEROMONES: HOW TO MAKE THEM:

STEP 1: Go fvck a woman with a vagina , no trannys guys come on now.
STEP 2: go out.
STEP 3: notice how vagina smell attracts women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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