"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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huh?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Scar Tissue

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Sounds like shes very interested in a serious relationship. It also sounds like shes very immature if shes in high school and says something like this. Goodluck because she wont be worth the trouble.

Also, next time you create a thread you need to come up with a better title than, huh? I was very close to just passing over this thread but decided to check it out purely because it was such a bad thread title.

And within the thread you need to explain your situation better. Try to give us at least a couple sentences of background info, age, how long you have known her, how interested you are in the girl, ect. I gave you my opinion on the situation but if you include better info I would of been able to give you much better advice than just saying shes immature and not worth your time.

But in all honestly i know im right about her, and unless your an immature AFC, she will be no good for you.

Happy hunting

ps. it helps in getting responses from the other guys if you do your best on spelling words correctly, I dont really mind it but i know it really pisses some guys off when they see kids type like that.
 

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Scar Tissue said:
Sounds like shes very interested in a serious relationship. It also sounds like shes very immature if shes in high school and says something like this. Goodluck because she wont be worth the trouble.

Also, next time you create a thread you need to come up with a better title than, huh? I was very close to just passing over this thread but decided to check it out purely because it was such a bad thread title.

And within the thread you need to explain your situation better. Try to give us at least a couple sentences of background info, age, how long you have known her, how interested you are in the girl, ect. I gave you my opinion on the situation but if you include better info I would of been able to give you much better advice than just saying shes immature and not worth your time.

But in all honestly i know im right about her, and unless your an immature AFC, she will be no good for you.

Happy hunting

ps. it helps in getting responses from the other guys if you do your best on spelling words correctly, I dont really mind it but i know it really pisses some guys off when they see kids type like that.
ScarTissue hit the nail right on the head...AVOID girls like this, trust me. They're often really crazy and possibly emotionally damaged if theyre only in highschool and are already asking if they're "the one". Next this chick.
 

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it means its time to run.
 
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