"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Huh? She's bein nice to me now?

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SikWitIt

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So couple of months ago i saw this hb9 went up to her did my thing got the number had her all over me. But then i screwd it up and got oneitis and she got bored with me.

So i didnt talk to her for awhile but then i started too again and i did the c/f thing busted her balls so much.

Then all of a sudden yesterday she started doing stuff she normally would never do for me like hold the door open for me, buy me a soda?

Giving me her hand to help me get up, ask me if im having a good day, wanting me to go everywher with her?

Now i dont wanna be a sucker again, So whats goin on is she teasing me or what?

Or have i gotten to the rapport part?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Absolute Pimp

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Only one way to find out if she's interested or leading you on man. Ask her out on a date, if she says yes, tell her you'll call her to set it up.

You should know what to do from there. If not, I hear there's a little link in the top right corner somewhere that can really help out, but I haven't found it yet myself.
 
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Jerky Boi

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Just treat the date like it's any other one. Don't bring up events from the past. That's all behind you. Maybe that time off from her did both of you some good. If you're interested in her, keep her guessing and make things interesting. Don't make the same mistake twice
 
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onenitis

what is onenitis? i see it quite a bit on this forum but never knew what it meant
 
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i think shes intersted, wel just watch out for anything, always rember your in control,
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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