"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hugs?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jukeboxhero

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Uhh, I think it depends a lot on the situation.
It could mean your friends.
It could mean the girl is drunk off her arse and would hug anyone.
It could mean she trusts you to an extent or at least she isn't grossed about by you
It could mean she feels sympathy for you.

Seriously, girls hug for a lot of reasons.
 

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Girls give hugs based on several factors. It could be your relationship with her, if you're family, how good friends you are with her, if you're more than friends. It could also be her personality. Some girls are very huggy.

Any reason why you're asking? Your body is very thin.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maxtro

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Heh I'm just not used to reading original posts with only one line. Espically on this forum where basically every other thread is a 20 page article, myself included. I just thought there was something else meant to add but it's not big deal if there is not. I'm just bored tolling the forums on a Friday night. OMG I just realized what I was doing on Friday night:cry:
 

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HandyAndy said:
When you get a friendly hug from a girl, is it a sign of trust or what is it?
It means she doesn't find you repulsive to touch but it also means she doesn't neccessary want to sleep with you because you might be like a 'brother' to her. All you need to find that out is esscalate your game and see where it will take you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you think girls consider some guys more hug-able than others?
 

DonJuan11

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I would never hug. What's the point? She'll just see you as friend.

Now if there was a touch a breast that comes with the hug, then I could see the point of it.
 
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