"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hugging leads directly to LJBF?

lokariototal

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What do you think? Is hugging a AFC type of kino, or AFCs just don't kino at all ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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Hugging only signals LJBF depending on the context. If it's a quick hug with your hand on her butt, that's cool:cool:

If he's hanging on to her like mommy and secretly chumping over her, the bell has already tolled.

And that ain't cool:nono:
 

Asasione

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Focus on expressing your masculinity and sexuality and whether you kino or not won't matter. Ever imagined screwing the girl your hugging and had her smile like she knew something. Ever noticed how guys who are good with women don't necessarily kino but the girls still want them sexually. Its all about behavior and that depends on how you think.

Have you actually tried gaining experience by testing your ideas or are you searching for shortcuts by coming here? The feedback you get will be different and will add weight to your theory or you'll find you were wrong. I bet this is about a girl you're interested in.
 
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