lokariototal
Don Juan
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What do you think? Is hugging a AFC type of kino, or AFCs just don't kino at all ?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hugging leads directly to LJBF?
- Thread starter lokariototal
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Unbridled_Phoenix
Master Don Juan
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Hugging only signals LJBF depending on the context. If it's a quick hug with your hand on her butt, that's cool
If he's hanging on to her like mommy and secretly chumping over her, the bell has already tolled.
And that ain't cool:nono:
If he's hanging on to her like mommy and secretly chumping over her, the bell has already tolled.
And that ain't cool:nono:
Focus on expressing your masculinity and sexuality and whether you kino or not won't matter. Ever imagined screwing the girl your hugging and had her smile like she knew something. Ever noticed how guys who are good with women don't necessarily kino but the girls still want them sexually. Its all about behavior and that depends on how you think.
Have you actually tried gaining experience by testing your ideas or are you searching for shortcuts by coming here? The feedback you get will be different and will add weight to your theory or you'll find you were wrong. I bet this is about a girl you're interested in.
Have you actually tried gaining experience by testing your ideas or are you searching for shortcuts by coming here? The feedback you get will be different and will add weight to your theory or you'll find you were wrong. I bet this is about a girl you're interested in.