amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
It's been on my mind lately. I'll include a short anecdote.
Today on campus I was walking with my bro. We stumble upon two girls we met at Bingo last week, HB6 B, and HB6.5 D. I give them hugs. We chat for a few, and the third girl HB7 Jess appears out of nowhere. This is the one I was supposed to grab coffee with. I give her a hug too. Dina has a funny last name so I teased her and she poked me a bit. We had a decent 5 min conversation since I had to get for class and I got pretty positive reactions, being friendly and cool. I already have their numbers and most definitely will make plans sometime soon.
I think that hugs make the whole situation more personal and friendlier.
So, everytime I meet a girl now, I shake her hand, and if I have established decent rapport, I will give a goodbye hug.
Hugs are the simplest form of kino I can think of.
What I'm wondering is does it actually count as kino to you guys, or is it a behavior that will land you right in the friend zone?
Thoughts on Hugs = Effective Kino?
EDIT:
Personal thoughts on my brief encounter...
When I unexpectedly encounter girls, I usually don't think much. I'm not at a loss for words, but I could be making face to face plans, using more kino, anything. I am less proactive when I have a short window of opportunity. This isn't really a big problem because in a sense, it's good that I don't think too much. But what I will say is that I don't make the most out of my opportunities. I will practice kino. This is one of the most important things I can do for my game right now to build rapport with any girl and to make a move more organically. Practice, practice, practice.
Today on campus I was walking with my bro. We stumble upon two girls we met at Bingo last week, HB6 B, and HB6.5 D. I give them hugs. We chat for a few, and the third girl HB7 Jess appears out of nowhere. This is the one I was supposed to grab coffee with. I give her a hug too. Dina has a funny last name so I teased her and she poked me a bit. We had a decent 5 min conversation since I had to get for class and I got pretty positive reactions, being friendly and cool. I already have their numbers and most definitely will make plans sometime soon.
I think that hugs make the whole situation more personal and friendlier.
So, everytime I meet a girl now, I shake her hand, and if I have established decent rapport, I will give a goodbye hug.
Hugs are the simplest form of kino I can think of.
What I'm wondering is does it actually count as kino to you guys, or is it a behavior that will land you right in the friend zone?
Thoughts on Hugs = Effective Kino?
EDIT:
Personal thoughts on my brief encounter...
When I unexpectedly encounter girls, I usually don't think much. I'm not at a loss for words, but I could be making face to face plans, using more kino, anything. I am less proactive when I have a short window of opportunity. This isn't really a big problem because in a sense, it's good that I don't think too much. But what I will say is that I don't make the most out of my opportunities. I will practice kino. This is one of the most important things I can do for my game right now to build rapport with any girl and to make a move more organically. Practice, practice, practice.