huge problem- C0ckblocked by gf's parents *advice/help needed*

[TheLazy]

okay guys, im in a pretty rough situation right now.

some background info:" my girlfriend's parents are extremely overprotective chinese parents, they wont let her daughter date any guys until she is 25 (she is 18), and will do everything to stop her from having boyfriends. I am 17, we are both doing our final year of highschool, we have known each other since we were 14

Two days ago, my girl and I met up to have our sweet, romantic date, not knowing that her mum set up one of her friends to follow us. The stalker took pictures of us together, and when she went home later that day, her mum confronted her and afterwards, cut off her cell phone, grounded her (for the remainder of this year), and i suspect cut off her internet as well today.

Her parents are definitely pressuring her to break up with me right now. The thing is, we love each other deeply (I know i am still young, but i want to spend my life with her). I do not want our relationship to end right now, it would one of those things that we will regret for the rest of our lives.

gosh my mind is all over the place right now... i want her to be in a good situation with her family, and i want to still be in the relationship with her, im afraid she might succumb to the pressure from her family, because she is an obedient and nice girl. >_<

another thing i forgot to mention, her parents and my parents are actually business friends/partners. And they have known each other since about 4 years ago, so her parents knows me pretty well and knows that i am a kind, intelligent guy with a bright future. Her parents also liked me quite well before.
any help would be appreciated!

p.s. i wont 'next' her, we have had passionate monkey sex lol (it means a lot to both of us)

 

[Chemistry]

She'll probably break up with you... but there's not much you can do about it, its nothing to do with being a DJ, just strict parents...

I can kind of see their rationale for stepping in... you're both young, right now is an important time to develop yourself academically and learn about who you are, if you hook up with someone too young then you miss out on this experience, and in some cases set about seeking those things you missed out on in later life... you kinda live life backwards...

The best approach you could possibly take is to acknowledge what I've put forth in the above paragraph to show the parents that your head is screwed on and that the most important thing is each of your individual goals, but as an aside you enjoy spending time with each other and think that it would be counterproductive to split up anything other than naturally...

Its not guaranteed to work, sometimes parents will be deadset against it, and will do everything to make sure things don't continue, but this is the only approach that has any chance of working...

 

[Latinoman]

It won't be the end of the World. The chances of the relationship working (even with the full support of the parents) is very very very low.

Now, it can be the end of the World if you act stupid and start hurting people (like that moron that killed his girlfriend's parents and now has LIFE in prison without the posibility of parole).

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

Seriously buddy, I think you should try to talk with her parents, without their support you wont be able to continue your relationship anyway and maybe your courage will make them reconsider.

Get some nice clothing and a good haircut, bring flowers for her mother.

 

[TheLazy]

thanks for the help and advice so far guys, gave me a lot to think about. I will do anything to keep our relationship in tact.

 

[TheLazy]

another thing i forgot to mention, her parents and my parents are actually business friends/partners. And they have known each other since about 4 years ago, so her parents knows me pretty well and knows that i am a kind, intelligent guy with a bright future. Her parents also liked me quite well before.

*adding this to the original post

 

[Chemistry]

Doesn't matter...

You can find their reasons in my first post... as you can see they don't have anything to do with personal qualities