"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Huge Muscles?

yungahdubz

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I've been working out for around 3 weeks now, and was just wondering why my muscles looked so big after I'd finished my workout y'day. I did 5x5 of barbell-rows and overhead presses for the arm part of my workout, and after that my arm muscles looked huge, and they felt really tight and ached quite a bit. Btw, I really struggled on both the exercises and just managed to complete all the sets and reps. So I was just wondering, any reason to why my muscles looked so big?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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int3l

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wish mine stayed big. Mine feel like bloody balloons. Poke them and they pop.
 

Omen

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BLOOD FLOW baby. Mine do the same. And yes, we all wish they STAYED like they did after our workouts.
 

mintxx

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punch yourself in the eye. now watch it swell. same thing. doesn't make you stronger unfortunately, popeye says eat your spinach
 

int3l

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the hulk says get hit by radioactive fallout
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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