HS Kids

[aBAzLLnA]

I don't wanna come off like I'm *****ing and moaning, but do any other HS'ers find that their school is filled with brainless dips? Maybe I haven't put enough thought into this, but I have seriously come to the conclusion that there are two types of kids in high school:

1) Very chill, but extremely shallow
2) Very shallow, but extremely chill

Maybe this is just my school, but I need some help here. My problem doesn't lie in making friends etc, I can fit in wherever i want, but it's just that I DON'T want to associate with a lot of the kids that go to my school. None of them interest me, none of them I can relate to, none of them would understand me (that makes me laugh lol).

Any thoughts would be appreciated.

 

[Patrick124]

Evolution. Adapt.
For the rest of life you will run into people you don't liek or you feel you are superior over.

Many people run into this problem in Highschool. its because they want to feel they are better than everyone else, and that si why the can't fit in[though they don't admit this].
Shallow? You jsut judged everyone in your school into 2 catergories. thats alil shallow, yes?lol
and I'm not tryin to rag on you, jsut puttin it in perspective. Adapt man. If you haven't found friend, you're not looking. I went throguh thsi stage in 7th grade when I was new. Then I opene dup ebcaus ei didn't wnat to be a ***** for the rest of HS.
Enjoy it man. You'll regret it if you don't.

my 2 cents..hope it helped?
goodluck, peace.

 

[high nrg]

Originally posted by aBAzLLnA

1) Very chill, but extremely shallow
2) Very shallow, but extremely chill

thats one type of person. think about it

you pretty much said the same thing twice

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Nah, I got a steady bunch of doods I hang out with. And I admit, categorizing them is probably wicked shallow, but I stand by what I said. (I'm a senior this year)

1) Very chill, but extremely shallow 2) Very shallow, but extremely chill

Somehow i knew I'd eff that up, but y'all get what I'm trying to say.

its because they want to feel they are better than everyone else, and that si why the can't fit in[though they don't admit this].

Interesting idea, never had thought of it that way before. I'll think about this for a little before replying a little more thoroughly.

Thanks for the quick replies, appreciated.

 

[Omega]

Tell me though, do you want to fit in? Fitting in means conforming to standards and sterotypes, in most cases playing an ongoing game of following the leader.

What a great time!

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Honestly, if fitting in means what you said R3N3GAD3, then I really don't want to. It's my senior year, and I had to realize it now lol, such good timing.

What I really want is just to have fun. I'm an extremely social person, so having a lotta fun means, a lotta socializing. But, if socializing means having to talk about girls all the time, or being stupid, then count me out.

There are times though, when I will find a good conversation, but those come rare.

 

[Omega]

Find your self a social life outside school as well. Clubbing, picking up girls with cold approaches,. befriending guys in the gym, etc. Don't worry about fitting in, just worry about getting amazing grades for Uni if your going, as well as making an impression and doing whatever the hell you want.

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Haha R3N3GAD3, I wish you could stand in my shoes for a moment. I'm in boarding school and it's IMPOSSIBLE to get out. We have school on saturdays too.

What I found out is that I am only truly satisfied when I hang out with my friends outside of school, or when I'm meeting new people outside of my school. Honestly, it's like a prison here.

I guess the only way for me to do have the fun that I want, is to get out more.