"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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1life

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I was just wondering how do you react in a DJ way when you get the best grade in the class and youre beating the girl next to you...
What do you say to her when shes like "OMG what did u do to get that grade, the test was so hard blablabla..."
And, how should you react when SHE is the one with the best grade?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dirtyvibe

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um, if you're the best

if you're asked how, just say you studied really hard. dont brag, dont talk about it unless asked

if girl is the best
just be nice to her
 

kev me723

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or you could just be like this test was easy, I studied for like 5 min. Maybe you should stop drinking and do some homework on school nights. If it's a girl that doesn't drink a lot that'll get u an awesome reaction.

if she does better than you, one word you have 2 say to her: Nerd.

Don't do either of those in a mean way though, playful is what ur going for.
 

Vincent

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Well you're both sorta right.

One way would be.
Assuming you got the better grade:
"Yeah I had to study really hard, maybe you shouldn't go out drinking the night before a test" in a jokingly way.

and kev me723's response to the other is good.



But honestly you're putting to much thought into these things, just do what feels right.
 

oakraiderz2

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For f*cks sake, i know a way i can make millions. Forget what would jesus do, how bout what would a dj do? A bunch of you dependent p*ssies would buy those huh?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
For f*cks sake, i know a way i can make millions. Forget what would jesus do, how bout what would a dj do? A bunch of you dependent p*ssies would buy those huh?
lol
 

AdrenalynJunkee

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If a girl got a better test grade than I did, just get a ****ty grin and call her an overachiever.


If you got better than she did, and she asks you about it, just simply say, " I catch on pretty quickly. Ya know, you ever need help with something, chances are I gotchya covered."
 

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Just proclaim how awesome you are. Modesty is for b!tches ;)
 
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