Hs and Labels

[BBX]

Look at it this way. If you put the ghetto, or punk kid, or the stoner kid, or the extreme ambercrombie prep kid up against the regular no label kid aka me, the label kid is always goning to win over a s*itload of more girls. Its really sick when you think about it.

 

[Bvbidd]

Look at it this way. If you put the ghetto, or punk kid, or the stoner kid, or the extreme ambercrombie prep kid up against the regular no label kid aka me, the label kid is always goning to win over a s*itload of more girls. Its really sick when you think about it.

You forgot Emo. :crazy:

Risk the chance of being preceived boring though.

 

[BBX]

Look at it this way. If you put the ghetto, or punk kid, or the stoner kid, or the extreme ambercrombie prep kid up against the regular no label kid aka me, the label kid is always goning to win over a s*itload of more girls. Its really sick when you think about it.

edit- emo kids
I just blank them out bc they suck d*ck

 

[WC2]

Why wouldn't you just want to be yourself? Have your own originality and style; trust me you'll get more girls being original as opposed to being a prep or a punk.

 

[BBX]

Everyone in my school is fake and I've always been myself. Thats the problem. Everyone who isnt fake in my school dosent quite have girls drooling over them. Its not even about popularity anymore, its about the label. Ive gotten really popular this year but it dosent matter to girls because I don't look like a fu*king punk or goddammmn emo. The only girls in my school who would like a guy for being himself are the untouchables, the ones that you would get your ass beat for going near.
Its all fake s*it. I just got rejected for the sole purpose of I don't dress like a punk f*cking skate border.

 

[Bvbidd]

Why wouldn't you just want to be yourself? Have your own originality and style; trust me you'll get more girls being original as opposed to being a prep or a punk.

If only that after school special bull**** actually worked in the real world.



Not saying it's not better for your own well being, but there are labels and **** girls look for.

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

Damn you AFC, a true Don-Juan doesn't care what other ppl are saying and thinking about him. Label is the most stupid thing in Highschool, who gives a F*CK! After your highschool it doesn't matter if your the popular kid, nerd, jock who's the quaterback! seriously would you put that on your resume?! NO so don't care about what kind of clique or label you have and GO GET SOME! girls are attracted to guys with balls not because of their label that some lozer came up with! Having no label is so much better cuz you can get any girl you want! if your a jock your stuck with dumbass cheerleaders, but guess what I'm me so I can get cheerleaders, preppy girls or Ghetto chicks if I want.

 

[American_Psycho]

Why wouldn't you just want to be yourself? Have your own originality and style; trust me you'll get more girls being original as opposed to being a prep or a punk.

Let's be honest dude. That's not true in HS, unless you're already popular, very rich, very good-looking, or on a top sports team.

 

[BBX]

Damn you AFC, a true Don-Juan doesn't care what other ppl are saying and thinking about him. Label is the most stupid thing in Highschool, who gives a F*CK! After your highschool it doesn't matter if your the popular kid, nerd, jock who's the quaterback! seriously would you put that on your resume?! NO so don't care about what kind of clique or label you have and GO GET SOME! girls are attracted to guys with balls not because of their label that some lozer came up with! Having no label is so much better cuz you can get any girl you want! if your a jock your stuck with dumbass cheerleaders, but guess what I'm me so I can get cheerleaders, preppy girls or Ghetto chicks if I want.

I'd like to believe you but the clique thing in my school is everything. You gotta put on an act for girls its really the only way.

Also man I live in like the twilight zone and guys with balls dosen't mean too much, its the emo, punk, or ghetto guys that girls go for. My friend who dresses punk whom is pretty afc and popular has like mad hot girls that want to hook up with him that he dosent even know. His afc response is, "but I don't even know her". Haha but he's proubly the coolest motherf*cker I know.

 

[Nobody]

I'm independent, confident, etc. and Nobody hangs out with me. I'm like an aquitance to everyone, but don't have a label so I never hang out with anyone on the weekend. It sucks. Get a label, and fast.

 

[Toushi]

I'm independent, confident, etc. and Nobody hangs out with me. I'm like an aquitance to everyone, but don't have a label so I never hang out with anyone on the weekend. It sucks. Get a label, and fast.

I say the opposite. Don't get a label, and get cool with every group. I don't have a label, but now I go out with different groups. You probably won't 'enter' the label group like the other members, but believe me, it's better to be yourself, and be cool with everyone, than just be inside one group.

 

[Bvbidd]

I say the opposite. Don't get a label, and get cool with every group. I don't have a label, but now I go out with different groups. You probably won't 'enter' the label group like the other members, but believe me, it's better to be yourself, and be cool with everyone, than just be inside one group.

That's a lot harder than just becoming an Emo and going to emo shows, or becoming a Stoner and smoking every weekend, or becoming a who knows and doing so and so with the many other so and sos who will accept you because your so and so.

The other way will still have you be a loner, unless your insanley well-liked or rich.

But that's just real life. You can do what you like the best.

 

[Toushi]

That's a lot harder than just becoming an Emo and going to emo shows, or becoming a Stoner and smoking every weekend, or becoming a who knows and doing so and so with the many other so and sos who will accept you because your so and so.

The other way will still have you be a loner, unless your insanley well-liked or rich.

But that's just real life. You can do what you like the best.

First, yeah, I maybe be wrong, since I'm not American but Portuguese, and the situation may be a bit different.

Anyways, I'll admit it may be a bit hard to pull something like this, but it is possible. Look at me. At the begining of the year, I was a major loner. I put some effort, and look at my week: an invitation for diner with the Timberland girls and her group for Saturday (got cancelled), a party with the Emos during the weekend, an invitation for a lan-party with the cool kids of school during 3 3 days at their house... And I went out a few days ago with the in-liners, bikers, skaters or whatever you call them and spent the night in the house of one of them.

The point is that I'm always me. I'll not change whoever I am just to fit in. Of course when I am with different groups I do different stuff, but that's just obvious.

I don't know how I managed this, since I was a social-retarded at, let's say, 8 months ago,, but I did it. The turning point was finding SoSuave. Just go and meet people. Network. It worked for me. I don't have a group, and I get along with almost all the groups in high-school. Better than having only a group/clique/whatever. I'll not change myself because of girls. If they like me, cool. If they don't, their bad.

 

[BBX]

The point is girls find guys who belong to a label much more attractive compared to the guy with no label despite being somewhat in most cliques.

 

[Toushi]

The point is girls find guys who belong to a label much more attractive compared to the guy with no label despite being somewhat in most cliques.

I don't give a shyt about what they find attractive or not. Men, just chill, for God's sake. Do you want to be with a chick that likes you because you're a skater/stoner/whatever (unless what you're looking for is ONS), or because of who you are? Don't worry so much about don't having a label. Labels are stupid. They're just a way to unconfident kids having some fake confidence to move on.

I'm happy without having a label. I have lots of invitations to different things: if I want to do downhill, I'll go with the 'bikers'(?), if I want to go to clubs, I'll go with the cool kids, and so on... And, actually, not having a label is something that has really helped me out with girls. If I had a label, I would have less girls to be with. There's an Emo kinda into me, a Timberland girl, and a no-label girl too.

But it's your life, and your identity. Do whatever you want with it.

 

[BBX]

I don't give a shyt about what they find attractive or not. Men, just chill, for God's sake. Do you want to be with a chick that likes you because you're a skater/stoner/whatever (unless what you're looking for is ONS), or because of who you are? Don't worry so much about don't having a label. Labels are stupid. They're just a way to unconfident kids having some fake confidence to move on.

I'm happy without having a label. I have lots of invitations to different things: if I want to do downhill, I'll go with the 'bikers'(?), if I want to go to clubs, I'll go with the cool kids, and so on... And, actually, not having a label is something that has really helped me out with girls. If I had a label, I would have less girls to be with. There's an Emo kinda into me, a Timberland girl, and a no-label girl too.

But it's your life, and your identity. Do whatever you want with it.

True, but some girls are so godddamn picky like the'll **** me if i got clothes from c0ck sucking pac sun or some s*it like that. Its even gayer than judging looks. I've hit the point where I don't even want anything to do with girls because they suck thats all there is to it. If a girl wants to f*ck me, great, if you're gonna play stupid f*cking games, get the f*ck away.

 

[Mr_rogers]

True, but some girls are so godddamn picky like the'll **** me if i got clothes from c0ck sucking pac sun or some s*it like that. Its even gayer than judging looks. I've hit the point where I don't even want anything to do with girls because they suck thats all there is to it. If a girl wants to f*ck me, great, if you're gonna play stupid f*cking games, get the f*ck away.

While I agree that it's bullsh!t, it's just the way things are. You can either ride with it, learn how to adapt, change for the better, or you won't, and you'll just have to deal with whatever life gives you.

You may think that it's cowardly and AFC to change for girls, but I must point out that the only reason that anyone joined this site was so that they could learn how to change to get girls. The choice is yours.

You can decide to go with a label and secure yourself a spot with a group, or you can be a rogue and try to do what Toushi did.

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

Sigh... seems like all you kids are just being an insecure b*tch and making stupid excuses for your faliures. Seriously if got confidence = balls and decent clothing style of your choice you can get any girl you want in highschool.

Emos and Goths attract girls who are similar to them... MEANING THEY ATTRACT SUICIDAL DEPRESSED F*CKED UP B*THCES! You really want a girl like that? I stay away from those girls even if their hot cuz I know they're screwed up in some way.

Sure hot girls might hook up with a Emo, Goth, or some skater! Why? becuase they have confidence. If your idea was true would wouldn't all HB only go out with JOCKs? Does that happen all the time? NO because only the JOCKs with confidence will get the girls and all the other lozer jocks will hangout and wait till they get the leftover from the alpha.

Seriously if a girl judges you only by your looks she's shallow mofo and she isn't worth your time! Stop thinkin about what clique your in or what your label is and just have some self-confidence. I know plenty of lozers who isn't in a clique who have HB girlfriends.

I'm half Jap-half White, I know a lot of people and even have total loners as friends. Do HBs care... NO! A HB 9 who saw me talking to the geek still came and sat next to me just so she could talk to me about her boring weekend.

I dress how I want! Do I have a label? maybe but I don't know what it is and don't care because "What other people think of me is none of MY business." Are other guys jealous... YES! Everyday some AFC loser would make fun of me for being half asian... but I just laugh and put them back in their place cuz I know they're jealous. Even the "popular" jock tries to AMOG me and pick a fight with me when I meet him. Why would he do this? Because he sees me as a threat, I don't listen to his "orders" I got no respect for him cuz he cried when a girl dumped him.

If you think Highschool is all about cliques and labels you'll regret it once you graduate. So make your own damn decisions and stop worrying what other people think.

 

[BBX]

^
Well said
thanks for the help

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

exactly man, my advice to you is, go out there and play basketball, long enough, you willl have chicks digging you and you will have your own style because most ppl who plays b ball are cool.