"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How's this for irony?

SharinganUser

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If you don't want to read this whole thing, then you can just scroll to the bottom for the summary.

I met a woman I met in China, traveling arround the asia. We fvcked one day, and I liked her, more than my other one night stands. For sometime after that we were planning on meeting again, in another country. She really wanted to meet me. But we couldnt come to an agreement. Throw into the mix that I have been reading a book by Hiroko Murakami, "Noriegen Wood." Most depressing book ever, but I continue to read it because I can somewhat relate to the main character. Anyway the characters "gf" is a crazy girl that he only hooks up with once.

This girl that I liked, I also only hooked up with her once,(well twice in one day), and she also has a lot of problems. So that why I could relate to this book.

But anyway moving on. We talked one more time about meeting in another country. But the last email was about her problems and how she wants to marry her ex bf when she gets home, and how she doesn't think she can give me what I want, and that she doesn't want a relationship with me. But since visiting her is still an option, I am assuming that sex with her is still an option.

Admittedly, I did send some AFC'ish emails to her. And yeah, I do want more than a FB. But I am not going to travel to so far just to fvck for a week or two and then go home.

Unlike an AFC, I am actually quite relieved that she has rejected me. I was really confused about what was happening. I mean if it was just a FB, then what would be the point in doing things together besides sex???? If it was just a hook up I wouldn't have went through all this.

I didn't reply to her last email, and she says that she still wants to meet me, but I've decided that I won't go and visit her, but I'll keep in touch anyway. But here is the best part of the story. Yeah, I am dissappointed, but it's only dissappointment, and I am almost already over it. Everyday is a new day.

Ok so heres the really funny part:

Today when I logged into facebook and read this email sent to me by a woman I hooked up with while traveling, and she is getting married, There was another message on my facebook account. It said "you're ex-gf who didn't tell you she was actually married, and you nailed her many times" has accepted the friend request you accidently sent out over a year ago.

Get it? ;)

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ZenGodMod

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That pretty ****ed up. You fell into a trap! Glad it's over, move on.
 

j0n024

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wait I didnt get it.....hmm I must be slow can you translate lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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War Against Betaism

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j0n024 said:
wait I didnt get it.....hmm I must be slow can you translate lol.
Yeah me too I didn't get it.
 

SharinganUser

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Don't get it? What's not to get? My ex, who was married when we dated, added me to facebook, the same day another girl sent me an email saying she didn't want to date me because she is getting married in the summer.

Married women are relentlessly trying to destroy me.
 

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How is giving you sex with no strings 'trying to destroy you?'

Just don't get too attached to hors next time :)
 
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