"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hows this for a meal??

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So i decided its time for me to get into shape and have been working out like a madman for the last month and now am trying to get on a healthy diet (i would be content eating pizza for every meal so its hard). Tonight i decided to look around the house for the healthiest food to eat and just sort of mixed and matched so this is what i ate. Is this a good meal for getting buff and ripped and in shape??

4 or 5 slices of cajun turkey (sandwich meat from the deli, but i just ate it plain with no bread or anything)

Cottage cheese
Baked beans
Carrots (approx. 8)
Skim milk

and then i've been munching on some cashew nuts
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You'll get bored of that after a few days, believe me. If you're serious about getting in shape, keep to watching what you eat and exercising fanatically. As for food, I'd recommend

1) tortilla wrap bread
2) lettuce
3) grilled chicken breast, sliced
4) sliced onion
5) light salad dressing of your choice

About 15 bucks a week to eat 2 big ones a day, and you can keep the flavor changed up by using different dressings. Not to mention, it's better than paying 5 bucks for the same thing at Chick-Fil-A.
 

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mmm that does sound really good and easy for a lazy college student. Kind of like those wraps they sell at subway now. Thanks for the idea
 

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Originally posted by DJ Bishop
You'll get bored of that after a few days, believe me. If you're serious about getting in shape, keep to watching what you eat and exercising fanatically. As for food, I'd recommend

1) tortilla wrap bread
2) lettuce
3) grilled chicken breast, sliced
4) sliced onion
5) light salad dressing of your choice

About 15 bucks a week to eat 2 big ones a day, and you can keep the flavor changed up by using different dressings. Not to mention, it's better than paying 5 bucks for the same thing at Chick-Fil-A.
That's nearly identical to what I had last night. Except salsa insted of dressing and saome fat free cheese...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fat free cheese typically has other bad things in it, such as high salt content.
 

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Fat free cheese or fat cheese? Margerine or butter?

Damned if you do, damned if you don't...
 

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just eat chicken breast and oatmeal everyday for every meal, youll turn into a beast
 

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man cannot live by bread alone.

having enough good variety in your diet is a good thing. if not for the obvious benefits, for the fact that it takes hard work to stay on a workout routine as it is, the broader your diet the less you limit yourself as far as food goes. no reason to cut way back on the things you like as long as you get the balenced portions for what you're intending to do (cutting or bulking). good absorbale proteins, good carbs, good fats.

then, focus your attention on working out.
 

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Sounds good to me, but it looks like you may be undereating. Also, if I remember correctly, beans are high GI carbs, which you want to stay away from, should that be the case. Plus. the sauce on baked beans is nothing but mollasses.

I reccoment that EVERYONE join the general forum at johnstonefitness.com.
It was started by a guy who got tired of being a fat slob, and went from VERY overweight to having a body that turns heads in a few months, from clean eating and exercise. I advise everyone to check it out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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