"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Howdy

alm80

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Just wanted to inroduce myself

i stumbled upon the community on accidnet when i found a copy of "the game" by neil style strauss, and then found out that 5 of my "natural " friends all got into it as well

I have managed to pull my fair share of bettys for being an total afc in college, and about a year ago i got hardcore about my workout, lost some weight gain alil muscle and bam i was pulling gals without trying (i reconize now it was all the inner game that the weight lose gave me )

So i am here to learn and continue my journey

thats long enough for me


l8r
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ace of Flames

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welcome to sosuave. we hope you enjoy your stay with us.

if u wish to find people in your area, go to the wingman forum. its the door on your left.

thank you for visiting sosuave, and have a nice day!
 

reyalp

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people in STL say "Howdy?" wtf?

hm, anyway, welcome to the fold
 

Shiftkey

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Welcome! In case you haven't already, check out the DJ Bible at the top of the page.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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