Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Howdy

alm80

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Just wanted to inroduce myself

i stumbled upon the community on accidnet when i found a copy of "the game" by neil style strauss, and then found out that 5 of my "natural " friends all got into it as well

I have managed to pull my fair share of bettys for being an total afc in college, and about a year ago i got hardcore about my workout, lost some weight gain alil muscle and bam i was pulling gals without trying (i reconize now it was all the inner game that the weight lose gave me )

So i am here to learn and continue my journey

thats long enough for me


l8r
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ace of Flames

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welcome to sosuave. we hope you enjoy your stay with us.

if u wish to find people in your area, go to the wingman forum. its the door on your left.

thank you for visiting sosuave, and have a nice day!
 

reyalp

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people in STL say "Howdy?" wtf?

hm, anyway, welcome to the fold
 

Shiftkey

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Welcome! In case you haven't already, check out the DJ Bible at the top of the page.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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