"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Howdy and Hello to all.

Plec07

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Well this is just a quick post to let everyone know I'm back. I've been gone a good while, had a busy time these past two years but now I'm back again.

There's a lot of new people here I see, but for those of you who remember me from back when I was a HS forum mod will know I don't post often but I'll always be lurking around reading up on how people are doing.

If anyone wants some direct advice/feedback ect send me a PM and I'll give you my msn and if you live in the uk and think you might need some advice, or just a kick up the ass next time you see a girl but your too nervous to approach then your welcome to have my number too.

Take care and enjoy!:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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eaglez1177

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Whats up man. Welcome back! How have the past two years of life been for you?
 

Plec07

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Not bad mate, a lots gone on and can you believe I've only been with one woman the entire time?
 

eaglez1177

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Damn that sucks...im guessin you were in a relationship? Hopefully you had a fun time...
 

Plec07

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Yeah was a relationship so wasn't a bad thing. Definately feels weird to be back on the game now though
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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