HowardHughesDicaprio is Ambitious Player

[backbreaker]

Once and for all. they are the same person, spewing the same message. Ambitious Player was getting ****ted on on this forum so he mutated some things about himself (instead of Indian now he's middle eastern) but the message is the exact same. a leopard can't change it's spots

on dating / having sex in your early 20's

HowardHughesDicaprio

sn't that you can't get the excessive amounts of sex when you are an adult or any of the outward things, it is more of a battle on the inside. The inner you is still angry and upset that you missed out on having the excessive sex and cool friends in your teens and early 20s and instead have it after that time when lots of people are past that lifestyle.

The more I think about it, the less benefits there are to being a late bloomer, it is almost an insult rather than something to be proud of.

The truth is that majority of the people who are successful were born to successful families. The guys that party hard in college and end up making lots of money after college were connected at birth, had dads that could get them a nice job despite the guy being one of many that majored in business, and they never had to worry about money since parents paid for college. Those guys would have been successful had they not gone to college.


As I said, I knew frat boys that majored in communications and still had amazing careers because they knew once they have their degree they can get a great job.

The problem is most of us are not priviledged white boys. Most of us are middle class or below, are lucky to even go to college, and will be lucky to graduate with as little debt as possible. For us, partying hard is not really a possibility, we need to keep a high GPA so we can keep whatever scholarships we have.

ambitious player

My problem is that I want that validation. I want to live that frat boy lifestyle after college yet feel that all the money in the world cannot buy that lifestyle.

It's like when you are getting into a relationship in your mid 20s and forth, the fun is not there anymore. It is all about being serious and "when are we gonna marry?". Girls stop trying to have fun and more serious while you are the animal that has been let out of his cage. You don't get to enjoy sneaking around like teenagers were doing or having your bros pat you on the back and tell you that you are the **** because you just hooked up with the prettiest girl they laid their eyes on. I can't be the only one which this has affected but it just always seems like to me that late bloomers have to deal with their scars. It is as if even if you become a player at the age of 30, you won't have the same happiness as a 18 year old did fresh out of high school.

Well Mike, except later in life you can't use that language to efficiently communicate and people will give you a tough time for your accent. I just feel that this is more mental than external at the age of 25 but it is still there. How does a guy my age create opportunities? How does he make cool friends who have similar interests regarding women that he does like an 18 year old who has the chance to rush a frat would be able to?

I just notice how picky and cliquish a lot of the better looking girls in college are. Most of them either want an athlete or a frat boy with above average looks and social skills as their boyfriend. Having missed out completely on the college experience due to having money issues, working, and having a tough academic life I want to make up for this experience by getting with more college girls in my life.

I just want to know about the social circles. Seems like after college you are left with co workers and that is about it. Would love to know how to make friends with guys that love to party and get laid rather than lame AFCs. In college you can join a frat and do that ****, what about life after it?

If you never had that core group in college then it is hard to be a part of it after college man.

I guess one of the pains of being a late bloomer is realizing that there is an "in crowd" which you were never a part of.

fixation on interracial dating

HowardHughesDicaprio

Man, the white women of san francisco caring that much about a guy's race. You mean to tell me you are likely to find an asian guy and a white guy couple there but most above average looking white women there won't even touch a minority? San Fran, what is going on!?!?!?!?

It's nothing to do with racism but more so with physical preference. Men in the US tend to prefer white women over all races and latinas are a close second, middle eastern women are also sought after. Asian women tend to be fetishized and black and indian women are not that liked. All in all, most people prefer to be with others that look like them. White men prefer white women which toronto and san fran do not provide that many of.

ambitious player

I notice that White males tend to have more of an advantage in "multicultural" areas like San Francisco and Toronto. In very White areas like Minnesota and Idaho, seems like Black men and other minorities as well tend to clean up and do quite well.

Could minority males (men that aren't Black or White) be best off avoiding these really liberal type of areas like San Francisco and Toronto?

True but there are hardly any attractive White women out there who have slept with Asians, Indians, Arabs, and darker looking Latinos (not White or Black Latinos, I am talking George Lopez, Mario Lopez, and straight up stereotypical features Latinos).

Its not "every type of guy before I settle" thing, its a "lets do a black guy so I can brag about not being a racist thing".

Why is why I don't get Black guys on this forum complaining about not being able to get White girls for dating or marriage, the only guys complaining should be those that aren't Black or White

Most women hardly care about race at all if a guy is a high quality guy. White American women from upper middle class areas, suburbs, and upper class areas care a lot about race to the point that they reject guys who happen to be Brown or Asian, have 6 figure salaries, and are above average looking. The White girls you see in sororities at schools like UCLA or University of Florida care heavily about race. I don't even know if they would go for a guy like Mohinder from Heroes, Sanjay Gupta, or Jeremy Lin.

their pre set idea on what every man in american wants


ambitious player

Smoovemoves: The truth is we ALL want that real life barbie doll lookalike, some psychology studies have proven this. It is like saying looks matter or bad boys beat out nice guys. Some of us are in denial about it, I have had Black friends and Asian friends that said "man white women ain't sh*t" but those same guys would aggressive get at the hot blonde that works through the door. Most of the times these guys would get rejected kindly (I actually remember it being all the time).

HowardHughesDicaprio

Deep down we all want what we can't have and to a minority, the blonde queen with good looks is the ultimate price, it is his way of knowing that he has made it. Unfortunately, the blonde has far too many options than to actually settle for a guy of a minority group unless he is a pro-athlete. I do feel though that if Skinnyguy is more of the indian of a lighter complexion he can pull off the exotic niche and sleep with a few of those blonde princesses if he wanted to. Gonna have to hit the gym and lose the accent for that though.

on living in Atlanta

ambitious player

I've lived in Atlanta before, it's pretty bad too with some of the racism that is still around. A lot of the graduates of SEC schools who were big in the Greek Life end up moving there for jobs so it isn't that different from Wichita or some town in Arkansas, especially if you are in my situation (minority that wants to do well with White girls).

HowardHughesDicaprio

Thanks to spending time in Atlanta I developed somewhat of a taste for black girls but almost all of them were light complexioned. Preference is still for middle eastern and white women though so Atlanta isn't my kind of city but if you like black girls, no city in the USA beats Atlanta.

I am not even going to bother debating that, all I can do is say I am not. Now go cry about your 20s where you did drugs and brag to the world about how you have such an awesome wife that you spend your entire life on so suave. It is **** like this that creates psychos. I could imagine a guy lost in life coming to this forum and asking for advice from other guys just as lost in life but making up stories about their success only to be misguided. Young men are not getting guidance from people who supposedly carry around the tag in life of having made it.

how the **** would you know any of this if you just signed up in april lol?



lol you're like a mutant off X men or some **** lol. Just mutated into a different dude. There is not a regular poster on this site that can change their handle that i would not know about. If Warrior, Zekko, **** me, danger, YOU, CHANGED YOUR HANDLE i would know because i actually read posts.

 

[JohnChops]

K cool you took the time to dig old threads, wasting your own time, to bust someone acting as the same person, but in reality means nothing. K BB no one cares.

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

K cool you took the time to dig old threads, wasting your own time, to bust someone acting as the same person, but in reality means nothing. K BB no one cares.

but wait he has a hot wife, a successful business, and seems to be successful in life, why wouldn't he play detective on an internet forum?

 

[SmooveMooves]

It doesn't matter that they're the same Guy, Stevie Wonder can see that.

What matters is the dude's self-hate, pedastalization of white chicks, attacks on red pillers and the manosphere , and overall negative views.

In the dictionary next to "Victim" is this guys username and his alt.

All this man ever posts is complaints, never any substance.

Just my humble opinion however.

I lol'd at John Chops, it made me wonder, how long did it take you to find those posts for this thread? Haha

 

[backbreaker]

What matters is the dude's self-hate, pedastalization of white chicks, attacks on red pillers and the manosphere , and overall negative views.

this.


he's a cesspool to the message of this forum. **** i'm black and i don't want to talk about race relations ALL DAY LONG. my goodness. it gets old.

I lol'd at John Chops, it made me wonder, how long did it take you to find those posts for this thread? Haha

honestly about 10 mins. I knew what threads I was looking for. they were all pretty memorable and recent.


I don't have a problem with ambitious player or whatever he wants to call himself. I have a problem with someone who comes to the forum and says the same negative things / beliefs over and over again prompting a self hate /pedalization agenda. that is not a guy who wants help that's a guy whose trying to spread a "message"

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

this is all about me criticizing the red pill, more like the straw that broke the camel's back. I even said the red pill is correct but those behind the writing are full of it.

that said I have never pedestalized white women on here, I have simply stated the obvious about my travels and even said I do well with them. as for the whole victim thing I said some cities suck.

in comes backbreaker bragging about his pretty looking wife and successful business yet his life is lived on this forum. And I get the hate when I have rarely posted any race threads?

go cry about taking drugs in your early 20s OP.

 

[backbreaker]

if you know anything about me you know i give 2 ****s about the red pill. I just don't like you lol.

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

if you know anything about me you know i give 2 ****s about the red pill. I just don't like you lol.

lets review the quote

I don't have a problem with ambitious player or whatever he wants to call himself. I have a problem with someone who comes to the forum and says the same negative things / beliefs over and over again prompting a self hate /pedalization agenda. that is not a guy who wants help that's a guy whose trying to spread a "message"

but you just said in the thread I am ambitious player.

you claim to read everything people post but not everything you post yourself?



that aside, I don't care about you. you have been on my nuts for being another guy just because I posted a thread similar to his. I don't share any self-hate and neither do I pedestalize white girls other than pointing out that cities like san fran and toronto don't have many of them which might make some guys hate it. Yes I said most guys prefer white girls because they do, that doesn't mean my life revolves around them.

you have too much time on your hands for a guy that claims to have a hot wife and successful business, by that I am implying you are full **** and don't actually have any of that.

I am not ambition player but I am done with this thread, who in the world has time for a personal beef on an internet forum let alone the time to do the detective work and make threads about it? go back to crying about doing crack in your 20s OP.

 

[El Payaso]

I always knew there was something fishy about him. He has massive self deprecating issues that he expects others to somehow solve for him.

 

[foreverAFC]

ambitousplayer, skinnyguy, dicaprio, all the same guy, the indian race troll

 

[VikingKing]

Idk guys. Maybe it really,REALLY sucks to be an indian guy. In that case thank God I'm not!!!!

 

[G_Govan]

if you know anything about me you know i give 2 ****s about the red pill.

Not a knock at you, but your posts make a lot more sense having read this.

 

[skinnyguy]

Idk guys. Maybe it really,REALLY sucks to be an indian guy. In that case thank God I'm not!!!!

I wish I could disagree with you, but I can't lol.

Anyway, I'm not HowardHugheswhatever. That name is retarded.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

quite a touchy subject, but I try to laugh at women as they get old, we men have the last laugh

 

[gravityeyelids]

Dude... if you really put this much effort into digging this stuff up and constructing this thread.... you really need to get a fvcking hobby. Or read a fvcking book. If you have the time to do this you're clearly not keeping yourself busy with constructive tasks.