"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Willspearec

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How do you approach a girl, that you dont know, who travels in a freakin pack?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Willspearec said:
How do you approach a girl, that you dont know, who travels in a freakin pack?
dont. y waste time getting in with the pack when you could have easily gamed a lone chick? it's most certainly possible, but that's just my opinion
 

Willspearec

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Anyone else? If anyone has anything , please share, cuz I'm running in circles here.
 

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Open regular just talk to all of them. (If its a 2 or 3 set) Tease your target more so you have some sexual tension. But if its a huge set it isn't really needed to engage them all. But its just like opening a lone wolf.

Also could merge sets if you feel that you need to keep one of them occupied by having a pawn, pivot, or wingman.(Say you open a 2set there isn't a way for you to isolate the target without the other getting bored)

I find group sets more fun, but thats just my opinion.
 

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If you can talk it's easier than aproaching a solo in some ways. Think about it, you have one natural reason for talking to her: you'r sitting around alone and would like to talk to someone.

From there you can just start talking more to you'r target.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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