"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How young is too young?

Paintballguy

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If she is legal, who cares? Last 3 girls I've dated seriously: 19, 20, 19. I like em young. :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In2theGame

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I'm 31 and the youngest I went out with was a 19 year old blond. She was super hot, College girls are the best.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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latinnova

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Ya, after being out a little more it's really all about maturity. I have met some 27 year olds that still act like they are 17 (and are usually really messed up in the head), and some 21 year olds that act like they are 30 and are really cool, so it's all about maturity.
 
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You older gents all need negs on recharge. You should be ashamed of yourselves. If I were a mod with ban power I'd clean this site up quick.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Jimmy,
You stole my thunder,Half your age plus seven for a keeper,but yes us old Bulls like to nibble on green sprouts LOL.
 

Poop1337

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It's creepy that the feminazi propaganda has made you feel like a creep for wanting college girls who according to you are giving you signs of interest. Yes go for it you creepy fool.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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