"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How young is TOO young?

lordson

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I'm 21, but there a really hot 15 year old at the department store where i work. shes 16 soon. I'm not overly attracted to her, i dont want to have sex with her or anything, but she is objective very attractive. It just pleases me to look at her. You know what i mean?

And work is boring and i'd be lying if i said i hadn't toyed with the idea of dating her, but i'm just daydreaming and i know it would be wrong and weird

i think 18 would be my absolute limit. at least finished high school


So what do you guys think? how young is too young?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Different countries have different age of consent laws.

For me I go as low as 18 which is the age of consent in California :D
 

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I am having this exact same dilemma.

Here in Colorado she's legal for me at 16...so that makes it more of a moral problem.
 

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At this other forum I visit some of the guys are UK and they told me the legal age there is 14! They talk about banging 14 year olds and I'm like WTF???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ever onward said:
At this other forum I visit some of the guys are UK and they told me the legal age there is 14! They talk about banging 14 year olds and I'm like WTF???
the other day i was driving and at a red light. these two girls who looked 13 to 14 were crossing the street. at most they may have been 16.

anyway, i didn't pay much attention to them. but this guy, who was probably 45, and turning in front of me was hardly looking at the road as was checking them out.

the girls didn't see, but you know that lingering stare you see guys do. well this 45 year old dude was checking out these 14 year olds. he wasn't looking at their face, since their backs were to him, he was staring (intensely) at their *sses (and yes, even from behind it was clear they were children, likely 13 or 14).

if it were legal i think there are lot more men out there who would screw 14 year old girls than we realize.

pretty f*cked up.
 

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joekerr31 said:
pretty f*cked up.

Or biologically sound. Depends on the world view I guess, is sex a horrible tramatic experience or as natural as taking a piss?
 

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18 and older

nothing under that since I don't want to fvck up my future.

comic_relief
 

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joekerr31 said:
the other day i was driving and at a red light. these two girls who looked 13 to 14 were crossing the street. at most they may have been 16.

anyway, i didn't pay much attention to them. but this guy, who was probably 45, and turning in front of me was hardly looking at the road as was checking them out.

the girls didn't see, but you know that lingering stare you see guys do. well this 45 year old dude was checking out these 14 year olds. he wasn't looking at their face, since their backs were to him, he was staring (intensely) at their *sses (and yes, even from behind it was clear they were children, likely 13 or 14).

if it were legal i think there are lot more men out there who would screw 14 year old girls than we realize.

pretty f*cked up.
take a look at "to catch a predator."

comic_relief
 

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joekerr31 said:
if it were legal i think there are lot more men out there who would screw 14 year old girls than we realize.

pretty f*cked up.

Didn't someone post here the other day that the age of consent is 14 in Canada?

As Americans we are a little too uptight about the whole thing. When I was a teenager, I knew 16 y/o girls who did a gang bang parties. The idea of that they were so innocent that an 18 y/o seducing them would be a felony is laughable.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ever onward said:
At this other forum I visit some of the guys are UK and they told me the legal age there is 14! They talk about banging 14 year olds and I'm like WTF???
It's not. It's 16 here, and I believe 18 for homosexuals.
 

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I must have been mistaken. He (the guy from the UK) was probably in discussion with another poster from somewhere in Europe where the age of consent is 14.
 

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In much of the Caribbean, the age of consent is 16, but not enforced due to weak local governments and policing.

The American guys who go to jail for screwing a 16 or 17 y/o (usually because an angry daddy sicks the cops on them) have it rough. Either they go to a regular yard, and get the sh!t beat out of them for being a chomo, or they go to a chomo yard full of sick fvcks who really do rape little kids, or they go into protective custody, which is about as fun as solitary. All of this is for a sex act that is legal in much of the world.
 

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am i the only one who finds it wrong for people to equate legality with morality. what about former soviet republics where a little money can get you anything without worry of prosecution? would those of you who simply look at what you can get away with aim for infants in such countries? do you derive your morals and principles from what the locals will or will not accept? in czech republic it is not a crime for an individual to view and store child pornography on their computer. does this mean that you would do such a thing if you were an expat in prague simply because you wouldn't risk punishment? as someone with a libertarian mindset i find this love affair with gov't. to be very soviet/socialist/neoconnish in flavor. maybe if americans had less laws there would be more morality on the street. think about it.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/09/02/AR2007090201155.html
PRAGUE -- When Austrian authorities announced in February that they had uncovered an online child pornography ring, pedophiles around the world suddenly became potential targets of criminal investigations -- but not the ring's 63 customers in the Czech Republic, where downloading and possessing such images is not a crime.
 

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bambam said:
am i the only one who finds it wrong for people to equate legality with morality.
No, I find it offensive when people assume that just because something is illegal it is also wrong. There are plenty of stupid laws out there, created to cater to idiots.

First, young adults are not what get pedos turned on, it's children that do it, so you're trying to establish a sort of guilt via association which is a logical fallacy.



As for that whole kiddie porn red herring, is it OK if the models just LOOK young? What if the whole thing is CGI and the "models" are not real, is that OK? What is the specific wrong you are preventing with laws like this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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