ELMER_GANTRY
Don Juan
As I said before, these PUA scripts, gimmicks, tricks don't help you out in obtaining lots of women naturally, because you are not being original. Instead, you are being phony, fake, and stiff trying to use other people's methods to try to become successful yourself. Some guys may pull it off, but they always hit a bump in the road somewhere with it, but for the majority of them, they are just wasting their time and money, when they could be practicing their own game, and developing what truly works for them.
Think about it, all that time you wasted reading books or watching videos, how much did that really help you become successful? The best PUA artists weren't watching videos or reading some other guy's books, they were busy going out talking to women, finding out how they can attract them with their OWN style, and understanding how to make a woman want them. They learned it on their own, not through other material from what other guys told them to do.
So, let's say you managed to pull off your PUA script with one chick for the night, but you failed to take her to your place, or her place for the night to get laid. You just got her number instead, you didn't get laid from your PUA game, which is what you were trying to do. What are you going to do when you have to talk to her on the phone to get a date? Try to find some new scripts for phone game, to game her some more by reading some other guy's words? What are you going to do when you have to take her out on a date before you can get in her pants and hop in the sack with her? Memorize a bunch of scripts hoping the conversation will go exactly the same way? The answer is no, there isn't any scripts to help you do that, so why be phony in the first place when you can't continue down the road with it? By doing that, you're just going to drive off the cliff with poor game, and you will just embarrass yourself when you're out on that date in front of that girl. You are not learning anything with it, you are using words from somebody else, and it isn't getting you anywhere with it. If you had your own real game, instead of fake game, you would be natural in every situation with that girl. That is what you want to be, natural, smooth as silk, because you are able to game her with your pefect game that YOU profected. You would be successful from learning the ropes on your own, not trying to band-aid your weak game with guru's scripted advice that has already been around for years, that isn't helping you. Some guys might pull it off, but they are not being original, and sooner or later, they will fail using fake game, because they never developed any real game of their own.
She will remember you from wherever you met her, as this cool guy that was able to attract and game her, not knowing you used some pick up artists game or scripts. She will expect you to be exactly the same guy as she met before. When she sees how you really are on the date, or talking to her on the phone without your scripts, she will become confused because you are different from how you portrayed yourself before. She will begin to wonder, what happened to this guy? Why isn't he the same as before? She will then see you as a loser, get disgusted with you, and if she is smart, she will put two and two together, ignore you, probably ridicule you, and you will lose out on getting into her pants, which was your intentions in the first place. Then guys like this, will probably sit at home all alone with their d*** in their hand, because they never developed any real game to be a success with women. Then, they will probably go out a few nights later, and repeat the same failing pick ups over and over again. They just repeat the same cycle, again and again, they never get any better at attracting women, because they have no real game of their own. They only rely on other PUA methods that they think will make them a superstar, and it really never does anything to help make them one.
So, don't try to be that phony pick up artist like so many guys out there are trying to do. It will not help you in the long run, and will cause you to fail more times than you will succeed. All these guys are saying the same things, doing the same routines, when you think about it, most chicks hear the same ones from all these phony pick up artists all the time. These routines are not new, they have been around for a few years. Instead of putting in all that effort to be a phony PUA reading their books, you should put in the time and effort to develop your own PUA game, one that is customized for you, one that you know that will work, because you made the stuff up, just like they did, and you will be a natural at it. Because that is your ultimate goal isn't it? Getting as many women as you can, through your own game, that makes you a great ladies man. That my friends, is what makes you a succesful man, and what you should be striving to do. You will even be more confident because it is your own material that made you successful, not what made some other guy a success. You are that success on your own, with your game, a success that you can be proud of, because you took the time and effort to make that possible. It feels incredible to achieve that success after you've become skilled at it. With practice, calibrating your game customized to fit your own style, developing a strong powerful natural game that you can use in any situation, any guy can achieve success with women. If he puts his mind to it, gets confidence, develops natural ability on his own, puts some hard work forward, he will become that successful man he wants to be.
To become good at picking up women, you need to practice, with all different types of women first. Who cares what they look like or how old they are. Your initial goal isn't even to get any numbers at all. Your first objective, is to get comfortable in your own skin, gaining the confidence that you need, getting your inner game and your mind in the right frame first, then feeling like you get any woman that you approach. That is your first objective, and is what you should be doing. Then you can approach them for the sake of getting numbers, while you continue to tweak and solidify your game, until you have it down pat to where you want it, and are comfortable with it. So many guys are just focused on getting numbers, numbers, numbers, they are getting too far ahead of themselves, and they are losing sight of what they need to do, which is becoming a natural at picking up women. It's like a track runner that has a false start, you're always too far ahead of the game, even before you can even have a chance to start it. Get your game solidified first, then approach them because you know how to be a success, and it will be working for you the way that you want it to. So, by doing that first, you establish yourself as a confident man in control in any social situation, where you can be a natural and approach any woman with ease. That is what you should be doing through your own game, confidence, and all the experience you learned from practicing first. Then you can reap the benefits later, when you are able to obtain lots of women, and attract the women that you want to have, like I've been doing. It's the only way to go if you want to be successful using your OWN game. Don't be phony, be original, using your own methods, then you will achieve tons of success.
That is why tonight, you should stop reading books, get away from your computer, and start the process today of meeting new women, and practicing your aproaches. Who cares if you fail, that is not your point, your point is to get comfortable with yourself now, then you will succeed later. If you get some numbers now, then that's all the better, but your main goal is to get better, then profect yourself with your game, so it becomes natural. Just like a surgeon, who can do his work perfectly, you can slice and dice your way through her bi**h shield, melting her heart, and making her want you, while it is just a natural thing for you to do. You still might fail, but who cares, you will have even more women available to you, and you still won't have any problems getting other women. It's actually good to fail at first, do you know why? Because you will quickly find out what isn't working, and you will never use that again, and replace it with something that works. You can calibrate your game to find out what works, and use that to incorporate into your entire game.
So, practice with any woman you can find, it doesn't matter who they are, get comfortable with yourself, your speaking skills, your body language, your inner and outer game, your confidence, experimenting with your own natural game, finding out what works and what doesn't, then using what does work, from your own solid game that you profected, to attract the women you want to score with. You will be successful, and will be a better pick up artist, than trying to use some guru's methods, that only makes you phony for a few minutes, then all falls a part later, when you don't have your scripts anymore to use. You will be a successful man using your own methods that you created, that is the best way to achieve it, because you are now your own success that you created, not from other guys works, and that is something you can always be proud of, a true successful man that is original.
Think about it, all that time you wasted reading books or watching videos, how much did that really help you become successful? The best PUA artists weren't watching videos or reading some other guy's books, they were busy going out talking to women, finding out how they can attract them with their OWN style, and understanding how to make a woman want them. They learned it on their own, not through other material from what other guys told them to do.
So, let's say you managed to pull off your PUA script with one chick for the night, but you failed to take her to your place, or her place for the night to get laid. You just got her number instead, you didn't get laid from your PUA game, which is what you were trying to do. What are you going to do when you have to talk to her on the phone to get a date? Try to find some new scripts for phone game, to game her some more by reading some other guy's words? What are you going to do when you have to take her out on a date before you can get in her pants and hop in the sack with her? Memorize a bunch of scripts hoping the conversation will go exactly the same way? The answer is no, there isn't any scripts to help you do that, so why be phony in the first place when you can't continue down the road with it? By doing that, you're just going to drive off the cliff with poor game, and you will just embarrass yourself when you're out on that date in front of that girl. You are not learning anything with it, you are using words from somebody else, and it isn't getting you anywhere with it. If you had your own real game, instead of fake game, you would be natural in every situation with that girl. That is what you want to be, natural, smooth as silk, because you are able to game her with your pefect game that YOU profected. You would be successful from learning the ropes on your own, not trying to band-aid your weak game with guru's scripted advice that has already been around for years, that isn't helping you. Some guys might pull it off, but they are not being original, and sooner or later, they will fail using fake game, because they never developed any real game of their own.
She will remember you from wherever you met her, as this cool guy that was able to attract and game her, not knowing you used some pick up artists game or scripts. She will expect you to be exactly the same guy as she met before. When she sees how you really are on the date, or talking to her on the phone without your scripts, she will become confused because you are different from how you portrayed yourself before. She will begin to wonder, what happened to this guy? Why isn't he the same as before? She will then see you as a loser, get disgusted with you, and if she is smart, she will put two and two together, ignore you, probably ridicule you, and you will lose out on getting into her pants, which was your intentions in the first place. Then guys like this, will probably sit at home all alone with their d*** in their hand, because they never developed any real game to be a success with women. Then, they will probably go out a few nights later, and repeat the same failing pick ups over and over again. They just repeat the same cycle, again and again, they never get any better at attracting women, because they have no real game of their own. They only rely on other PUA methods that they think will make them a superstar, and it really never does anything to help make them one.
So, don't try to be that phony pick up artist like so many guys out there are trying to do. It will not help you in the long run, and will cause you to fail more times than you will succeed. All these guys are saying the same things, doing the same routines, when you think about it, most chicks hear the same ones from all these phony pick up artists all the time. These routines are not new, they have been around for a few years. Instead of putting in all that effort to be a phony PUA reading their books, you should put in the time and effort to develop your own PUA game, one that is customized for you, one that you know that will work, because you made the stuff up, just like they did, and you will be a natural at it. Because that is your ultimate goal isn't it? Getting as many women as you can, through your own game, that makes you a great ladies man. That my friends, is what makes you a succesful man, and what you should be striving to do. You will even be more confident because it is your own material that made you successful, not what made some other guy a success. You are that success on your own, with your game, a success that you can be proud of, because you took the time and effort to make that possible. It feels incredible to achieve that success after you've become skilled at it. With practice, calibrating your game customized to fit your own style, developing a strong powerful natural game that you can use in any situation, any guy can achieve success with women. If he puts his mind to it, gets confidence, develops natural ability on his own, puts some hard work forward, he will become that successful man he wants to be.
To become good at picking up women, you need to practice, with all different types of women first. Who cares what they look like or how old they are. Your initial goal isn't even to get any numbers at all. Your first objective, is to get comfortable in your own skin, gaining the confidence that you need, getting your inner game and your mind in the right frame first, then feeling like you get any woman that you approach. That is your first objective, and is what you should be doing. Then you can approach them for the sake of getting numbers, while you continue to tweak and solidify your game, until you have it down pat to where you want it, and are comfortable with it. So many guys are just focused on getting numbers, numbers, numbers, they are getting too far ahead of themselves, and they are losing sight of what they need to do, which is becoming a natural at picking up women. It's like a track runner that has a false start, you're always too far ahead of the game, even before you can even have a chance to start it. Get your game solidified first, then approach them because you know how to be a success, and it will be working for you the way that you want it to. So, by doing that first, you establish yourself as a confident man in control in any social situation, where you can be a natural and approach any woman with ease. That is what you should be doing through your own game, confidence, and all the experience you learned from practicing first. Then you can reap the benefits later, when you are able to obtain lots of women, and attract the women that you want to have, like I've been doing. It's the only way to go if you want to be successful using your OWN game. Don't be phony, be original, using your own methods, then you will achieve tons of success.
That is why tonight, you should stop reading books, get away from your computer, and start the process today of meeting new women, and practicing your aproaches. Who cares if you fail, that is not your point, your point is to get comfortable with yourself now, then you will succeed later. If you get some numbers now, then that's all the better, but your main goal is to get better, then profect yourself with your game, so it becomes natural. Just like a surgeon, who can do his work perfectly, you can slice and dice your way through her bi**h shield, melting her heart, and making her want you, while it is just a natural thing for you to do. You still might fail, but who cares, you will have even more women available to you, and you still won't have any problems getting other women. It's actually good to fail at first, do you know why? Because you will quickly find out what isn't working, and you will never use that again, and replace it with something that works. You can calibrate your game to find out what works, and use that to incorporate into your entire game.
So, practice with any woman you can find, it doesn't matter who they are, get comfortable with yourself, your speaking skills, your body language, your inner and outer game, your confidence, experimenting with your own natural game, finding out what works and what doesn't, then using what does work, from your own solid game that you profected, to attract the women you want to score with. You will be successful, and will be a better pick up artist, than trying to use some guru's methods, that only makes you phony for a few minutes, then all falls a part later, when you don't have your scripts anymore to use. You will be a successful man using your own methods that you created, that is the best way to achieve it, because you are now your own success that you created, not from other guys works, and that is something you can always be proud of, a true successful man that is original.
