"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How you can tell when a girl wants you to kiss her etc.

Jack-Torrance

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Okay there are a few ways you can check if a girl wants you to grab her or kiss her before you actually do it...

Wanting a kiss - If she stares at ur lips insted of your eyes or elsewhere on your face (I mean stare)

Wants to be grabbed - If she pulls up her shirt or whatever just a little bit on the back as if she is trying to get your attention in certain places...

Wants you to hug her (pretty harmless but still) - If she looks warmly into your eyes (could also mean she wants to kiss you)

These are just a few I have heard of... (Some go without saying but still)

Oh also if she gets into your intimate zone (can change depending on the area they grew up in e.g. crowded or not - you will know when she is trying to get closer she will usually make it obvious)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I would probably completely screw up with those... lol.
 

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The above signals are pretty good, but I do notice that typically it is the male that will lock eyes on the mouth, while women prefer to maintain eye contact.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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yeah, like who stares at someones mouth...
I think the men go further south then lips sometimes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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