"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How you can tell when a girl wants you to kiss her etc.

Jack-Torrance

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Okay there are a few ways you can check if a girl wants you to grab her or kiss her before you actually do it...

Wanting a kiss - If she stares at ur lips insted of your eyes or elsewhere on your face (I mean stare)

Wants to be grabbed - If she pulls up her shirt or whatever just a little bit on the back as if she is trying to get your attention in certain places...

Wants you to hug her (pretty harmless but still) - If she looks warmly into your eyes (could also mean she wants to kiss you)

These are just a few I have heard of... (Some go without saying but still)

Oh also if she gets into your intimate zone (can change depending on the area they grew up in e.g. crowded or not - you will know when she is trying to get closer she will usually make it obvious)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I would probably completely screw up with those... lol.
 

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The above signals are pretty good, but I do notice that typically it is the male that will lock eyes on the mouth, while women prefer to maintain eye contact.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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yeah, like who stares at someones mouth...
I think the men go further south then lips sometimes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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