How would you respond ?

[flirty_intentions]

You have played your game really well, and now the girl is mad for you, she thinks you are the best she can get. You have been talking on the phone quite often, and just when you think she is getting close enough, you start avoiding her a bit, so that you can finally ask her out or make her ask you out, you want her to miss you, so that she realises your value more than ever, so you dont attend all her calls, or just say you are too busy or any other excuse, and then finally after a few days you talk to her ( assuming you didn't talk to her at all for 2-3 days ), and she obv missed you a lot, and she asks questions like, " how much did you miss me", " how many times did you think of me", etc. etc. HOW would you respond ???

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by flirty_intentions
You have played your game really well, and now the girl is mad for you, she thinks you are the best she can get. You have been talking on the phone quite often, and just when you think she is getting close enough, you start avoiding her a bit, so that you can finally ask her out or make her ask you out, you want her to miss you, so that she realises your value more than ever, so you dont attend all her calls, or just say you are too busy or any other excuse, and then finally after a few days you talk to her ( assuming you didn't talk to her at all for 2-3 days ), and she obv missed you a lot, and she asks questions like, " how much did you miss me", " how many times did you think of me", etc. etc. HOW would you respond ???

My response would be full of sarcasim, I'd be a complete ass, then change the subject to going out for coffee or something.
I might say something like 'every second of every day, you were the only thing on my mind, nothing could stop me from thinking about you' then laugh.

 

[Grey Fox]

Well the sarcasism approach while tried and true can backfire. Also it sounds like this girl is really into you, so it might be pointless to use a tactic generally reserved women with medium interest. Instead of being a jerk, try being a little smooth. When she asks how many times you think about her. Pull her close and say "well lets count" and give her 3 or 4 light pecks. Thats an option. Or if you have your own place, schedule a date there, cook dinner for her, make her feel comfortable and just set a chill atmosphere. One of those two options will get her babbling for it.
These options aren't the only thing you can do. I think what you are asking us is if you should be subtle about this or become more direct. It doesn't hurt to be a little more direct at this point if she is really that into you. Push the proverbial envelope and see where it goes. The time for games is almost over and now you can both get what you want.

-Grey Fox

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by Grey Fox
Well the sarcasism approach while tried and true can backfire. Also it sounds like this girl is really into you, so it might be pointless to use a tactic generally reserved women with medium interest. Instead of being a jerk, try being a little smooth. When she asks how many times you think about her. Pull her close and say "well lets count" and give her 3 or 4 light pecks. Thats an option. Or if you have your own place, schedule a date there, cook dinner for her, make her feel comfortable and just set a chill atmosphere. One of those two options will get her babbling for it.
These options aren't the only thing you can do. I think what you are asking us is if you should be subtle about this or become more direct. It doesn't hurt to be a little more direct at this point if she is really that into you. Push the proverbial envelope and see where it goes. The time for games is almost over and now you can both get what you want.

-Grey Fox

Yeah, Grey Fox brings up a good point.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Flirty: There's no need to be so text-book with your "rules" when a girl has high interest in you. In fact as Grey Fox has already stated that strategy can EASILY back-fire on your @ss because she'll feel like her emotional interest in not being reciprocated. I'd stop being so sarcastic and ****y and open up a bit to her if you like her as much. Trust me bro, don't be a dumb-@ss around a girl you really like.



PIMP

 

[PRMoon]

Depends on the girl actually. I've been seing this one girl for a while now and I tell her i miss her all the time, because I do and she loves me for it, but our relationship is on another level, one beyond words and what not.

Although most of the other girls I spend time with, I honestly don't have enough time to call them and some times forget who they are when their name comes up on my phone. When i do awnser and they ask if I missed them i uusally give an "of course I did" but with no feeling behind it just with that "silly girl why are you asking me you know i'm playing you" voice behind it that girls never seem to catch onto becasue their so caught up in their emotions and what not.

Anyway if you've been gaming on a girl and you're just toying with her it doesn't really matter. If she's caught up in your game and her head is spinning then she'll interpret any thing as "he does miss me he's so cute" and try to arrage some time too meet up ... Unless you say "f*ck you b*tch I don't told you not to be callin me here" and hang up on her, then she'll probably be devisated and start stalking you. Bricks through the windsheild are expencive!!!

 

[ScrewIt]

i would play mind games iwth her, I'd say:

"hm...well that depends..."
her: n what?
"on the situation"
her: such as?
"if it was my last moment on earth, i'd think about you every second babe"
her: (blushing) what if it wasnt?
"well then, you'll have to prove to me you're worth thinkin about"
her: like what (how)?
"lets say we get together 9'ish @ ____, then i'll think about it some more"

i'd say this would work if she has high IL and is really into you. if she didnt have high IL, she wouldnt ask you if you thought about her.

 

[flirty_intentions]

hey guys, some really interesting opinions and strategies.
i guess in the end, it really depends on the girl and why she likes you, for example if the girl likes you for your really cool-dude kind of attitude, bikers suggestion was a good one, so was screw it;s , but if the girl is more emotional kinds and likes you more for your nature and all (ok agreed, we are talking about ugly girls here ), then grey fox's suggestion should easily lead us to the heaven, but as i build my game more on those ****y mind games and brat-tish attitude ( which i adopted after reading weapons of mass seduction, and has worked so damn well), i think sarcasm would be more apt.

actually i think this is one situation we all must be facing very regulaly, so i am sure there are many more suggestions waiting to be written down.

what do you say ?