"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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edger

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a hot woman with a bunch of her friends, passing you by on the street uttering the words, "And I want a hotdog". I forgot to post this, but such was the case 3 weeks ago, when me and a few buddies were walking on the lower east side of Manhattan. Group of 20 something year old women pass us up, and one says to me , "I want a bagel, is there a bagel place anywhere?", folllowed by her mini-skirted hot friend saying, "And I want a hotdog, where can I get a hotdog?"

Well, I ignored the hotdog comment and kept walking. Figured she was being a dumb c*cktease and didn't wanna fall into the trap like every other guy does, so I didn't play into it, ignored her, and kept walking. I'm just curious what you guys would've done in that situation. I couldn't think of anything witty at that particular moment, it all happened so fast as we passed each other. But I don't think anything witty could really be said to something like that without it looking like you're playing in to her nonsense and falling in to her trap. There were about 3 other guys on the corner who said she said the same thing to them. They too agreed, "c*cktease". I can't stand these particular women, who wish to be f*cked up like that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"You know you want it badly, but you can't afford my hot dog, luv".

Does your "Game" consist entirely of ignoring women or waving to them? Stop trying to be too cool and being so uptight, man! So what if they're c0ckteases? You can be the cl!t-tease!
 

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i got a footlong, its like a babys arm grabbing an apple............I AM OPEN FOR BUSINESS.

I GOT YOUR BAGEL RIGHT HERE..........(grabbing your crotch)
 

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Jitterbug said:
So what if they're c0ckteases? You can be the cl!t-tease!
How do you expect to be a "cl*t-tease" to a woman who is a c*ck-tease with no interest?
 
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