How would you respond to this?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

mintxx

Senior Don Juan

Sep 15, 2009

what a fvcking crock of sh!t. this is the god damn mature man forum.

if you're studying at 2am at the age of 25 it's fvcking important. more important than some chic who wants to play her little girl game of lets see if i can get this schmuck to drop what he's doing and pay attention to me.

Her: "Come keep me company"

You: "another time if you ask nicely" or even just "no"

DJDamage's response above is spot on.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.