"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How would you respond in this situation?

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Let's say you are after a particular HB 8. Her friend (whom you are also friends with) suspects you like HB 8, and asks you if you like HB 8.

I am wondering how the top DJ's would respond to this.

The reason I ask is because I would shoot back with something like "No, but she loves me." Problem - the friend would probably laugh but then insist on a serious answer.

Just a scenario I came up with that started to boggle me as I thought more and more into it. A serious "no" may be reported back to HB 8 and may cause a resulting loss of interest (or not necessarily interest, but interest in pursuit for her).

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Incog said:
Let's say you are after a particular HB 8. Her friend (whom you are also friends with) suspects you like HB 8, and asks you if you like HB 8.

I am wondering how the top DJ's would respond to this.
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HB 8 friend-So you like hb 8?
blinkwatt - Maybe I do,maybe I don't,why are you jealous?
 
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Sounds like a good response to me, but I would think that it would lean towards admittance, no?
 
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I would be very careful in this scenario. You don't want to get caught up in a situation where HBother plays matchmaker. If she does, you come across as very weak, like your not man enough to approach her. If this happened to me, I would tell HBother yes I do like her, then I would proceed to call HB8 before HBother calls to tell her. If you don't have her number, then use the opportunity to get the # from HBother.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you put your hands up in the air smile and you say, "well... what can I say :) "

After all this is the kind of thing tht happens to you all the time.

Then you hit that girl up sometime. After that you hit her friend up.
 
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Heh, I'm in this spot too. I come in occasionally to this resturant, and there's Heather, the cashier, and her friend in the back (don't know the name). Anyways, I've dodged answering that question with "maybe a little", and apperently the whole place has been talking in secert about me, which gives me points.

What I'm going to do is suck in both two girls at one. The next time I walk in and I have both girls working..I'm going to get them to admit indirectly that they do like me, and then I'm turning it around into "Well, what we could do, is I'll take Heather on a date one night, and you right after (*key* because if I kiss one, that cancels the other out when they talk if there was different days), and then you two can fight over each other for me."

So, in essense, if I kissed both of them and they both really want me, it should get interesting. Heh..
 
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MacAvoy said:
or a c/f response

"yea but now as much as I like you" wink wink (if she's not a fug)
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That's not bad! Good idea.
 
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She shouldn't be asking you that question, either tell her that or ask her in what way and go in to extreme graphic detail about whether she means just for sex, blow jobs etc.

Just embaress her and make her feel stupid for asking such a question in the first place - it's none of her damn business.

The Muscly Jerk
 
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