"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How would you proceed? And dealing with prudish women

Flex Luther

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Ok two part question:

Broke up with my ex around a month ago.

Since then she has blown up my phone calling several times in a night and trying to guess what I was doing via text, reminiscing about the time we were caught ****ing by a hotel maid and such. And asking me to call or to let her know when I was coming home (I lived in the same city as her until 3years ago and have many family and friends still there). However these texts were mixed in with some stating that she hopes I'm ok and that she knows I care, written in a patronising tone as if she's just concerned I'm not crying myself to sleep!
I feel I ****ed up though. As I responded to her last text after two days, first and only time I responded to this , saying I was fine but busy and that we could meet next time I was home In two weeks time.. No response. It would be great to get your opinion on how to proceed? My first line of thought was simply to stay no contact from now on and carry on as planned..?

On a side note: I have a study date at my flat tomorrow with a girl from uni. Russian born, easily a 9, but religious and prudish (always a catch)! She inevitably responds to me applying Don Juan principles physically, she introduces lots of kino, eye contact for ever and a day, smiling laughing, initiating texts etc. However I just cannot close the deal. Has anyone ever succeeded with a girl like this? The info on prudish women seems a little sparse and conflicting.
Thanks guys.. Still learning!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SoulMan13

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Flex Luther said:
Ok two part question:

Broke up with my ex around a month ago.

Since then she has blown up my phone calling several times in a night and trying to guess what I was doing via text, reminiscing about the time we were caught ****ing by a hotel maid and such. And asking me to call or to let her know when I was coming home (I lived in the same city as her until 3years ago and have many family and friends still there). However these texts were mixed in with some stating that she hopes I'm ok and that she knows I care, written in a patronising tone as if she's just concerned I'm not crying myself to sleep!
I feel I ****ed up though. As I responded to her last text after two days, first and only time I responded to this , saying I was fine but busy and that we could meet next time I was home In two weeks time.. No response. It would be great to get your opinion on how to proceed? My first line of thought was simply to stay no contact from now on and carry on as planned..?

On a side note: I have a study date at my flat tomorrow with a girl from uni. Russian born, easily a 9, but religious and prudish (always a catch)! She inevitably responds to me applying Don Juan principles physically, she introduces lots of kino, eye contact for ever and a day, smiling laughing, initiating texts etc. However I just cannot close the deal. Has anyone ever succeeded with a girl like this? The info on prudish women seems a little sparse and conflicting.
Thanks guys.. Still learning!
No contact. Delete her number and forget that she even exists. I'm not even sure why you're still in contact with a woman that you broke up with. There must have been a reason you didn't want to be with her anymore?

She just wants to know that she can still get you to boost her ego after you broke up with her, so when you told her you could meet up in 2 weeks she got exactly what she wanted, which was an ego boost. By you saying you can meet up and then her blowing you off, it makes her feel like she's now in a position of power (better than you) and not below you (not good enough), which is what she most likely felt when you dumped her.

As for the prudish girl, hopefully somebody else can give you some advice on that. I don't deal with those type of girls, the majority of the time they end up being more trouble then they are worth.
 

Flex Luther

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My last thread pretty much explains why we broke up.

http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=226469

Thanks for the response mate. Think you're right. Just toying with the idea of getting her back, or at least ****ing her again. But it seems a common pattern that this never ends well. I'll go no contact.

Yeah I never pursued prudent girls either, if there is a consensus on this it seems to be that, pretty sure she's still a virgin (mid 20's). Cheers man
 
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